My boyfriend and I have sex a lot, but I have never had an orgasm during sex - with him, or anyone else. I can have as many as I want no problem if I do it myself, but for some reason it rarely works when he tries with his hands. It's not a matter of lack of communication, and it's stressful for us both. So does anyone have any suggestions?
2007-11-03 11:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by gottapregunta 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I should mention that it's not that he's not good in bed - hardly, in fact. I really enjoy it when we have sex, but I just never orgasm.
2007-11-03 11:15:53 · update #1
I actually work in a sexual awareness field. The womans G-Spot is 2 inches below her navel on the upper wall of the vagina, Tell your man to insert his two first fingers and do a come hither motion until you feel it. It feels like a small spongy bump(similiar to the roof of your mouth) it is the size of a large pea. When he hits it you will probably feel the need to urinate. the reason for this is that your g-spot is touches your uretha. empty your bladder before hand and rest assured this will not happen, ride out that feeling and you will experience pure bliss!!! every woman has a g-spot therefore the myth that every woman can not experience a g-spot orgasm is totally not true. Some women cry, shake or even laugh hysterically after this type of stimulation so rest assured your reaction is COMPLETELY normal. Now go get your man and have some fun!!! You mentioned that he's not good in bed...GIRLFRIEND! part of your job is to guide him and teach him what YOU like.Every woman is different and so he may have been a blast to the last one, and if he truly is a dud. you owe it ti him and yourself to express this to him. BELIEVE me I speak from experience.Even if he's offended at first(which will be a normal reaction) he WILL thank you later. I PROMISE!!! and you'll be thanking yourself too!
2007-11-03 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They not only exist, but women have more intense orgasms and have them in faster succession. There was a study that said women could experience up to something like 10 times as intense as those men can experience. Plus, during a standard 20-30 minute session, I might have 1 or 2, but she might have 5 or 6 of them.
2016-04-02 03:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 43 and my first "real" orgasm happened after I had 3 children.
Your man must find your spot, and work it!!! You need to relax and let him satisfy you. Stop depending on your hand to satisfy you... let him do it. Tell him exactly what you like during foreplay. If he wants to satisfy you he will do exactly what you want. My husband doesn't stop until I ***... he knows, now, how and where to touch me... he's gotten so good at it he can make me *** 2x without stopping.
Good luck, once you achieve it it's wonderful!!!!
2007-11-03 11:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixlstilwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, thats because no one knows more about you than you! I mean, you know exactly where to touch, add presure, at the right time. Bottom line, only you could give pleasure to you body... well, in that way any ways.
2007-11-03 11:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny Lovegood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is to relax, if you are stressing about it, you aren't concentrating on the pleasure and it won't happen
2007-11-03 11:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toys.....or
do it yourself for the first one.....let him watch...he will like that...after the first one, it shoud be much quicker and eaiser for the second and third and fourth and so on, and he will be able to bring you to it.
2007-11-03 11:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by mad embalmer from the north II 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex, and tell him Exactly what you want.
2007-11-03 11:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can solve that problem for you overnight.
2007-11-03 11:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋