i have been having sex for about 5 months. i had my first orgasm during sex randomly one day my 3 month. i cant seems to orgasm!! my bf can do it but lately he wants to just finish fast!! and by the time he is done im barely getting excited!!! and sex doesn't get me horny or anything.
2007-11-03 10:15:21 · 2 answers · asked by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would do some self-exploring & see what you like, this way you'll know & you'll feel more comfortable about instructing your boyfriend. If you don't get excited, you need to have more foreplay...he needs to slow down & not be so focused on the end result... :)
2007-11-07 04:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is an a*shole for not caring more about you getting off. I would kick his butt the the curb. He needs to perform some major foreplay on you. Tell him to go down on you for awhile before you have sex. Also, it is not uncommon for a woman to have a hard time achieving orgasm. It is very difficult for me. I only have one every once in awhile. It also helps if you are in love with the person you are with. Try different positions too. Being on top works best for me.
2007-11-05 18:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by daisy2094 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋