My husband wants us to have sex in the doggy position, but I just don't feel like we've got the angle right. Can someone explain how we should be positioned for this to work. At the moment I'm just not comfortable with it, but if I actually knew what I was doing, it would make a big difference.
Thanks
2007-11-03 10:02:29 · 6 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I also suffer with vaginismus which doesn't help the situation.
2007-11-03 10:03:25 · update #1
you should arch your back down as much as possible. Instead of being on all fours, trying putting your chest on the bed, but that's not really necessary if you can arch your back well enough
Also you could try the froggy position which is basically like I said before, with your face and chest down and butt up as high as possible, but then your husbands stands over the top, with his legs spread out wide and then bends his legs, like a frog, to drop straight down in.
but I would master standard doggy before moving on to that.
2007-11-03 10:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Doggy style is not the best for the womans pleasure. You often need to rub yourself or have him reach around with his fingers.
Here is the trick: He is thrusting down, but your opening is positioned horizontal. Under your love-button is the clitoral sponge. He should try to rub against this area as he moves into you.
Your other options: rub yourself or only do this after he has given you a climax by other means.
2007-11-03 17:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you do the doggy position make sure your holle is fully open if it is not open try with your face and chest down and butt up as high as possible like a frog. If you do this frog position the hole will clearly open. and your husband can do what he wanted to do!!
BUT I HAVE TO WARN YOU IF THIS IS YOUR FIRS TIME DOING THIS THIS WILL BE A LITTLE BIT PAIN FULL!!!
GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!!
2007-11-03 17:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch a couple of pornos with the doggy position for a Visual Aid.
2007-11-03 17:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get on your fours on the the edge of the bed and have ur husband stand behind you!
2007-11-03 17:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by gurlynmgurl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i hate that position so bad!!! but my bf loves it!
well put your back down.. and your but up...
hope i helped
2007-11-03 17:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋