What should I do with this girl I hate?

Question

Okay there's this girl who I really hate. I called her a poser on myspace, and she replied with a "say it to my face" thing. Honestly, I'm kinda scared at school because she might do something with her friends about me in school and she's on my bus [and is really popular]. I'm not good at dissing, so what should I reply to her with? And no, I will not apologize to her because she deserved it.

Alright, what I said to her, she did something to me. She embarassed me in the school, she acts really mean to me, and a lot of other stuff that really did hurt me. Then I couldn't take it anymore so I decided to call her that...
So I kinda guess she deserved it..

Answer 1

. You are setting yourself up for a very troubled school life which could later follow you on. One thing you never mentioned was whether she has actually tormented you or if you called her a name because in your mind she is everything and has everything that you want. Being a teenager is the hardest thing on earth no matter who or how you appear to other people. Maybe she has her own demons to fight. Knowledge is power and you don't want that. Your to mired in hate and this will retard your growth and your life. What type of life do you want because if hatred is the path you choose it is very destructive and you are not only choosing that path for yourself but also for any children you might have later in life. Some choices that are made now could be choices that you will never be able to climb over. Please make your choices wisely as one day you will grow and have made a path that could only hurt and destroy.

Answer 2

Hate to tell you this, but you started this little rodeo. Learn not to let your alligator mouth overload your hummingbird ***. You know, if you two were adults, and you came off calling people names, in print no less, you could be sued. Libel is when you make accusations in print that you can not prove to be true.
This is a very serious thing that you have done. How are you going to feel if she and her friends decide to pay tit for tat and start telling around school that you spread rumors about people on your myspace? They would be telling the truth, and you would come off looking like the poser.
You don't want to apologize to her, and stop this right now? Even though you are in the wrong? Okay, but be prepared to deal with it. If you are going to make a statement about someone, you need to be prepared to back it up.

Answer 3

I KNOW UR LIKE WOW THIS IS ALOT BUT I GOT A LOT TO SAY. well there's a couple of questions i got to ask
u like what's Ur race are u white/black and what grade are u in
what grade is she is does she threaten u
i understand these school problems cuz I'm
in 9Th grade just got in the high school and
i got into a fight with this girl and i beat her
up so she had got all her friend on me the thing
is she is popular and so am i but even though
I'm popular and my sisters where too so when they
left high school i did not have to do any work
to become popular but back on the subject
popularity is not everything and if u fight
a popular person and win or lose u become popular
because everyone wants to know who was that
person that had the fight and Ur can be scared its OK
shes scared too even thought she won't mention it
and when you go to school or wait at the bus stop
and shes around u get like this feeling in Ur stomach
but its adrenaline and that just is Ur brain telling Ur
body hey get ready Ur gonna fight. but don't be scared
u have to face Ur fears some day and it is easier said then done. if u have any more questions email me at [e-mail]

Answer 4

Sorry to hear that. You don't have to apologize if it's not your fault so don't back down. Why did you call her a poser? Did you have a history with this girl? I know this may sound dumb, but you can go online and try to find out some good come backs. It might inspire you, right? Don't be too cliche though because she'll think you're lame. Otherwise, just don't back down and get your friends to back you up!!

Answer 5

You know throughout your life you will meet people who you dislike or they dislike you.You say this girl is popular,may be you are envious of her.Dont waste too much time on people you dislike,there are billions f people on this planet and you are bound to meet some that the feeling of dislike is mutual.Ipersonally feel that you try to make friends out of enemies.You may discover much to your pleasnt surprise that you actually might enjoy her company and have much to affer eh other and enrich each others' lives.Go thru life buildi bridges not burning them behind you.You are a social being, so interact with thers with respect and courtesy and people will respond to you in the same spirit.Life is too short,so dont go thru life with a sour puss on your face, smile and you will lie a happier life.In 10 years you not even remember this girl.I am sure you can work out your differences nd be friends.

Answer 6

Dude, you're better than this, be the bigger person. Just tell her to get a life, and that you're not going to waste any time on her which could be better spent elsewhere. And if she hurts you in person, do something creative (like throw water over her), but don't actually hit her. Its nothing she doesn't deserve ^-^ And at least it'll give others the message not to mess with you. gd luck bud ;)

Answer 7

Have you ever heard the "Golden Rule" saying "Do unto others the way you would have them do unto you"? Don't let how someone else acts out affect how you act. Some people have to act like jerks because of their own inferiority complexes. This person has no respect for herself or other people, apparently. Stay out of her way and do your own thing. Antagonizing her only denigrates your own character. I would suggest reading a book by Dr Wayne Dyer called "Your Erroneous Zones" to help you to deal with how you respond to others. Hating this person does nothing to her and only makes you upset. I found this book very helpful. Good Luck.

Answer 8

If you can't walk the walk then you better post a retraction on MySpace. And consider it a lesson learned. It's easy to have lots of bravado while hiding behind the curtain of the Internet. If you wouldn't say it to someone's face you have no business posting it on the Web.

Answer 9

You should never say with your mouth what you can't back-up with your brain or brawn. If you are afraid that her and her friends will start something then you should have thought of that before you started this on myspace. She may have deserved to have it said to her but you have got to be able to back up what you say. At this point if you are not willing to bring it to her face then you need to just stick to yourself and not draw any attention to yourself until this all blows over. They will eventually get over it and leave you alone. Learn to back up what you say with either wit of mouth or with your fists. Learn to think before you act also.

Answer 10

I'm assuming that you're in high school, so I'll go with that. After you graduate popularity won't matter as much. So I say confront her and be honest how you feel about her. If after she bothers you, just remember that your friends will always be with you and don't worry about what she says. The only thing that matters is what you think.