My girlfriend, who has a less than desirable marriage, father-in-law has passed away....im wondering if this will draw her and husband closer together or farther apart...especially since in-laws live out of the country? Im only concerned because she seems so miserable as it is....this tragic end could be a new beginning for her??? what is your experience with this??
2007-11-03 09:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think i was clear enough....i am not cheating with her...i am a woman concerned about my friend...thats all
2007-11-03 09:39:17 · update #1
It could, but not necessarily.
I know two death incidents which brought people apart...
I'm not saying that those death incidents were the causes of bringing people apart - they just put the problems forward that's all...
2007-11-03 09:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by ✿Purple✿ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OHH' Thanks for clearing that up.Well ya' know it can go both ways it really depends how torn the marriage is,My mother died while my ex-husband and i were not wanting to be togeather well more me not wanting to be with him.His comfort was nice at the time but i still could not let the fact go of how bad i wanted out of the marriage.And i did stay for a moment 5 months to long and it was not worth it ,now it's been 4 yrs since my mothers passing and the pain is still there so he was not worth the stay to do all over again i'd leave as soon as my mother left!
2007-11-03 09:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by so curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may and it may not. It all depends on her and her husband . He may draw closer to her for the comfort and the sympathy he will need or he may pull way from her and push her further away because he is upset over the loss of his father. Everybody is different. I know when my husbands step father passed away he got closer to me but when his oldest brother killed himself my husband pulled away from me for awhile and started drinking heavily. He does fine now but when it is close to the month his brother did this he pulls away again.
2007-11-03 09:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by dollbaby2407 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Sometimes sharing in tragedy can bring a relationship together. Having a common goal, or feeling can do wonders. The stress could tear them apart. Its not guranteed. Only time will tell.
2007-11-03 09:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by evil_kandykid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you are a rat for cheating with a married woman.
I hope her husband and get closer together and you get tossed to the curb!
2007-11-03 09:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually death and marriages being out the absolute worst in people. this might be the straw that broke the camel's back. and it doesn't get any better with you hanging around in the wings. if we see it, don't think that this chick's hubby doesn't see it.
2007-11-03 09:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by rebel with a cause 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jason, your gf needs to stop cheating on her husband with you.
2007-11-03 09:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs to stop screwing around on her husband.
2007-11-03 09:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by jason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋