before his kids came he used to call his girlfriend almost every 3 hrs. & very strict. Now that he is busy he barely gives a call to his girlfriend. Is it normal for the girlfriend to make tantrums & feel jealous?
2007-11-03 09:17:19 · 4 answers · asked by vince 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's normal for the girlfriend to be totally PISSED OFF!!! Sounds like he's using the girlfriend to fill in his lonely hours, when the kids aren't there. Sounds like the girlfriend should start going out and looking for other things to do and new people to meet. Don't revolve your life around this guy, because he certaintly isn't for you. Keep busy and find other things to do when he dosen't have the kids and calls you up make sure you have other things to do and don't be so available for him, it might make him think twice about how he treats you. Besides why isn't he including his girlfriend in on the trip to??
2007-11-03 09:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal to throw tantrums and be jealous of his children. He is with his kids not another woman. Would you want him to ignore that kids to call his girlfriend if they were your kids? He still calls he just cannot call like he used to. I would give him a break.
2007-11-03 09:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't even be his girlfriend because he is NOT divorced, he is STILL married to the mother of his children. The girlfriend needs to suck up and deal with the fact that his children will be number one in his life and that she will never be number one. But if she is having sex with this STILL MARRIED man she is nothing more than a whore because if she had any self respect she wouldn't be having sex with a married man.
2007-11-03 15:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
reckoning on the place you're at, that's advisable to bypass decrease back to court docket. a million. in case you share joint actual custody (50/50), notwithstanding that's no longer recorded that way in the court docket papers, that's advisable to bypass decrease back to court docket so as that the court docket papers mirror the easily volume of custody which you have. this might alter the comprehensive baby assist you owe. 2. report with the court docket to get an adjustment to the youngster help. this might require you and your ex-spouse submitting financial documentation to the court docket. If she is making significantly additional money, than your contribution might exchange, based on the youngster help calculation. that's only my experience with the CA court docket device. you need to investigate your state/county court docket internet site to confirm what type of ideas is available. in case you do no longer pay your baby help, it does no longer mean which you will lose get admission to to your infants. Custody and help are 2 separate matters, and scarcity of value of youngster help does no longer mean that loss of custody. you need to be conscious, regardless of the undeniable fact that, that the county will garnish your wages in case you do no longer pay.
2016-12-30 16:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋