I tell him its for me, and he says its for attention and that he likes small boobs thats why he picked me. Am i subconsly doing this because i want attention? What should i do?
2007-11-03 09:16:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Subconsciously doing this because you want attention? How about you are doing it because you Obviously want more attention. I'd suggest not messing with what nature determined you should have. Your husband chose you for his mate for many reasons, one of which is your body. Aesthetic alteration of your appearance may be something you want, but given the amount of damage it's going to do to your skin and flesh, not to mention the effect it's going to have on your natural sense of balance? Leave it alone. Losing a loved one isn't worth it.
2007-11-03 09:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by John * 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You've really got a serious problem, and suicide is not going to help your daughter because then she'll be left without her mother and her father. You have to face the fact that you are going to be loosing him--one way or the other. It's hard, it's painful, but you can get through this. GET A SUPPORT SYSTEM IN PLACE NOW. You need friends, and family. Tell people. Rely on those you love and who love you. Find a support group. Call Oprah if you need to; she can hook you up with people who've gone through this. Get a counselor or therapist to help you and your daughter deal with the loss and grief. You know you can't change him, and if it's true that you can't stay with him if he's like this, then your life and marriage are going to change. You just need help getting through the change. You have to be strong for your daughter, because she'll be grieving the loss of her dad and family as well, and she has nobody to go to but you--so you HAVE to pull it together. This is a sad event in your life, and it'll be difficult to go through, but in the end, if you endure and do the best you can for yourself and your daughter, the cosmos will reward you with something good--so good you never dreamed of it. This is a temporary moment in the whole of your life--and yes, a really sucky temporary moment, but it will pass, and life will be good to you again. You just have to have help to get through this bad time. Be strong, get help, figure out what you want with and from your husband, and stand your ground. You CAN DO THIS. I promise, you'll find strength you never knew you had, and become a much stronger person for having gone through it.
2016-04-02 02:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If you're not trying to impress someone than why would you spend thousands of bucks to make your boobs big?
2. Big boobs aren't really all they're cracked up to be, trust me.
3. If your husband loves you for you and married you, then why would you care what size your boobs are?
4. They're just boobs. They don't rock or change the world at all. If you want to spend that much money at a pop adopt from a 3rd world country or something.
2007-11-03 09:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by good gollum 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are doing it for attention. My Husband says the same thing but his reasons are that he think that woman that get boob jobs all leave their Husbands..his Mother being one of them. I would love to get a boob job, but I am pregnant right now, but after 4 kids...I am sure I will want and NEED one in the near future..If he loved you he wouldn't leave you over boob size!!!
2007-11-03 11:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Branicle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your husband is ok with them why are you getting them?
You Do realize you need to do a LOT of upkeep to getting breasts enlarged, and who knows what kinds of problems you can end up having.
What size are you now?
Don't get them. Wear push up bras and put that money to GOOD use.
2007-11-03 12:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like your husband and you need to work on some aspects of your relationship first. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get your breasts augmented as long as you're doing it for the right reasons(which I'm sure you intend to). But do yourself a favor and sort this jealousy issue out with your husband first.
2007-11-03 09:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I want a breast augmentation too but my husband won't go for it. I tell him the same thing, I want to feel better about myself. The only problem is, I don't work so my husband would have to pay, I guess I am screwed, huh? LOL
2007-11-03 09:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want bigger boobs? It does cause a lot of attention. He loves you just the way you are, maybe you should too.
2007-11-03 09:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what you feel! If he would really leave you (And you are the only one that will know ) Then there is your answer.Do you want a relationship where Boobs are the main point of it? Good Luck!!
2007-11-03 09:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bailey 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If your husband likes your boobs the way they are, don't change them
2007-11-03 09:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by mommacat 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋