I want to know if i can be nice to people if i am mean...?

Question

i want to know if i am mean how can i be nice to people????


please answer meee quetion and dont ssay bad things tanx or i will BAN U!!

Answer 1

You can choose to be nice or mean. You certainly can be nice if you want to, or anyone by that matter. You don't sound like you are a mean person. Are you asking for someone else? Your avatar does Not look mean.

Start off by smiling and looking them in the eye. If you are angry at someone, it is hard to be nice to them. You can talk to them and communicate your worries, concerns, etc...

It is ok to tell them you are mad and why. It actually makes your relationship stronger, in whatever form your relationship is. Try to work the differences out.

Give someone a compliment. Tell them you like the color of their outfit or eyes. Tell them they handled a difficult situation well. Try to find something positive in everyone. If you find all the bad things, then you will become negative. No one likes negative people as it brings them down.

There is always something positive in everything negative. Sometimes you just have to look for it.

Have a good day.

Answer 2

The first thing to answer would be why are you mean? Do you want others to leave you alone because if you are nice and they decide they don't like you it will hurt. But if you are mean and people don't like you, you can say it is because you are mean, not because there is something else they don't like.
On the other hand if you are never nice you will not have any true friends for your entire life.
Often times wanting to push others away is a symptom of being pushed away or disapointed or rejected by family in your developing years. You can overcome it though. Practice seeing others through eyes of curiosity and wonder instead of how they may or may not relate well to you.

Answer 3

You can ban me all you like but why, if you consider yourself to be a mean person, would you suddenly wish to be nice to people? Are you having a change of heart or seeing that being mean isn't working for you? If you are then I say GOOD! There's no reason to be mean to anyone...ever! If people are mean to you, simply walk away without being mean back to them. That's how you diffuse a bad situation. Mean people want a mean response so they can play you a bit longer and engage you in arguing. To what end? It solves nothing!

Of course you can be nice to people and you should! Take that mean streak and lay it down. Take your threats and lay them down too. You'll be surprised how many people will respond in a positive way when you're nice! Good luck.

Answer 4

Just stop saying mean things. It's not hard, just try and think of how you are hurting the other person by putting them down. Would you like to be treated that way?

Answer 5

Think you can do any thing you want to, be nice or be mean, and I really think you know the difference between the two.

Answer 6

u sound mean and ur avatar even looks mean. maybe ur just a naturally mean person. being nice is just part of ones personality and it comes naturally to them without then thinking about it. if ur asking how to be nice, then maybe being nice is just not ur thing :) later

sorry if i sound mean, but if u get to know me, then you'll know that i'm a nice person and i just don't like people who treat other people wrong.

Answer 7

Many times we are mean because we dont think what we say or do...Just be aware of everything you do and you will stop being mean.

Good luck!!

Answer 8

Put yourself in the other person's place. Empathize. And smile.

Answer 9

Don't be mean to them that's how you can be nice.