In a nutshell:
I'm 18, never been too sexual (first base with a guy, mainly because I've never found anyone I'd like to be with, and because the girl I wanted moved away this fall). I tend to check girls out in public. If I spot a cute guy, then I'm interested, but the fantasies mostly include the girls.
I can't remember the last time a guy turned me on. Oh yeah, it was some time last year at a club.
I think I might be gay, but I have never kissed/done anything with a girl. It is too early to say...or is it?
2007-11-03 07:47:14 · 21 answers · asked by 1011101 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd say you shouldn't care that much to put yourself on one shelf. I mean why do you care if you're gay or not at the moment? If you are you'll notice when the moment comes but you shouldn't reject guys too early just like you shouldn't just go all the way with a girl right away because you think it might be right. Just take it slow. It doesn't matter right now what sex you're attracted to.
2007-11-03 07:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Obilee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
If you have fantasies about girls then you have feelings for girls that make you want to do more than think about it. It starts with the fantasy first...just thinking about it & how it would feel to be with that person is the way that I got started. If you don't want to go down that road then you better stop now....if that's possible.
2007-11-03 16:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is too early, but you could be bi and like it either way. I think unless you do it with the same sex, it is too early to tell, you don't know how your feelings might change. You are also pretty young to know for sure yet. Good luck =]
2007-11-03 14:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by trick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. In time you will figure it all. Sometimes it's not going to be so easy as a yes or no answer. There will be a lot of issues to work through and alot of people to deal with in such matters. I wish you luck either way because it's not an easy road to travel.
2007-11-03 14:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by kjbamagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women have some form of sexual attraction to other women. It's not unusual. If you are checking out and interested in men also it likely means you are bi-sexual which pretty normal for women.
2007-11-03 14:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi although im happily engaged to my boyfriend. I always check girls out in the street and fantastise about them. its not too early, i would definetly say your bi-curious but the best way to find out is to kiss a girl and if your too scared then have a bit too drink and get a guy to dare you to kiss a girl [thats what i did lol]
2007-11-03 14:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never know until you find out. If you fantasies include women more than men there could be a good chance. The phrase is Bi-Curious.
2007-11-03 14:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are undecided. If I would have to categorise you as anything (and I think categorising people is useless), I would probably categorise you as being bi-curious.
Far more important than being labelled is for you to be confident and happy about the choices you will make. I suggest you just see how things go, rather than trying to force yourself into one direction.
2007-11-03 14:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are heterosexual with gay tendencies or Bi,
You are gay once you have sex with a same sex partner and then keep on with same sex partners only,
Looking doesn't make you gay. Like looking at a car doesn't make you a driver
2007-11-03 14:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel physically attracted to women moreso than men, you're at least bisexual. Not messing around at 18 is fine, though. Do it when you're ready. There's no rush.
But yeah, you're definitely attracted to women, it sounds. Good for you.
2007-11-03 14:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋