Im always afraid my parents will die or get sick than i will haave noone?

Question

im always afraid that this is going to happen. how can i stop being afraid?

Answer 1

You have no control over that so stop thinking about it and just appreciate them more right now while you can. Everybody is eventually going to die but not everybody always has the chance to make good use of the time before it is gone. Just have fun and live your life in enjoyment as much as possible. As you get older you will realize that it will be your turn to continue the family and have kids or a husband if you choose. I would not worry about any of this and as i said before have fun. Good luck!

Answer 2

I use to be the exact same way, I just turned 15 and I have never really had a mom or dad. I used to cry over the thought of my grandma dying, which is who raised me from childhood. As you age and try and learn to accept they will eventually die it will be easier to handle, although you will not ever fully get over it. It was easier for me to learn to accept it since I have never met my mom, I was born in a prison and I haven't seen my dad in about 8 years if not more.

Answer 3

I feel the same way, except I've even had dreams of going to their funeral. But they're is not much that you can do about death. Except be grateful that you have them now, and hope that they live a very long time.

Answer 4

Death is something I think about a lot. I think it is just human nature to think about the what if's. I try not to let it consume me,. it will make you crazy. I am very afraid too about losing a loved one. I already lost my mom to cancer and my dad is alive , and I sometimes think about losing him too. I guess it just makes you enjoy life to the fullest with the ones you love.

Answer 5

That's not an unusual feeling for adolescents. Most grow out of it and you don't worry about it so much without reason.