Yesterday I asked a question about a boy who always stares at me in school. I asked if he was gay and lots of people said he was. I didn't say how it made me feel though, everytime he looks I get kind of nervous and freaked out. My personality all of a sudden changes, I constantly see him close to me, but we don't talk much. But everytime he is close to me I get a weird feeling (not in a bad way) and it's weird because he's the only guy it happens with. But I also like the way I feel around girls, I pay attention to girls and to him, so I don't know what to do. He always finds ways to get my attention but I don't know if I should talk to him. We have a lot in common because we both dress in skate clothes and are friendly, but that's all I know. Well I just wanted to know if all these feelings mean i'm bisexual or someting? Because it's never happened before just with him.
2007-11-03 03:54:21 · 13 answers · asked by BHH [Bustin' Ho's Heads] 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My avatar picture is me!!!
2007-11-03 04:18:03 · update #1
Oh i'm 15 years old about to be 16 in january. He's my same age!!!
2007-11-03 04:39:16 · update #2
the bottom line is that it shouldn't matter... if you think you might like him... talk to him... if not you can still treat him with respect and kindness... and inform him that you're simply not interested if it comes to that... the end... the guy that said "I'd get freaked out if some guy looked at me close" is a moron... if he was comfortable with himself and his own sexuality he'd just take any positive attention he gets as a compliment and move on...
btw... if you're avatar is a picture of you... you're adorable... so get used to people thinking so... and I'm gay... but I'm not hitting on you... I have a boyfriend I'm very happy with... it's called a compliment... and it should make you feel good... : P
2007-11-03 04:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 16:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u r a Bi indeed. The very thought of being Bi suggests ur a Bi. There are many guys who get along & share bonds of trust and mutual care. But that doesnt make them gay because they never try to project their sexuality through their friendship. When u thought of having a possibility of alternative sex Bcuz of ur friendship, it means itz something more than friendship. Well, there are many guys who stare at other guys, not Bcuz they view them as love or sex material. They just want to have visual analysis about other guys behaviour(maybe for comparison or significant traits). In course of doing so they forget that it could project a different image of them. Now itz upto u how u take it. One will definitely view it in terms of sex if he/she is thinking the same. Itz human nature to relate things that look similar!
2007-11-03 05:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That used to happen to me a lot. I didn't know what I was. I'm 13 and know I am gay. But I think you are Bi-curious. I was for a long time to but then I realized that I liked guys only. So don't worry. It's natural to feel that way.
2007-11-03 07:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by dude_itz_chuckx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be. Get to know this guy better and maybe strike up a friendship with him. Don't do it with any intentions, just be cool with him and he'll probably be cool towards you. If a friendship develops, maybe then you can discuss sexuality with him but that will be later on as you get comfortable with having him as a friend first. Maybe you are bi. So what? There's nothing wrong with that.
2007-11-03 07:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tripod T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? My best guess is that your going through puberty and your emotions are throwing you for a tail spin right now dude, If you strongly think your bi-sexual, kewl then go with the flow. But I honestly think you need to be sure once you act on it its something that will be apart of you "or your past" forever, .
2007-11-03 04:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by W S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. As hard as it is to do so you'll need to talk to him or since you're in school, maybe have someone you trust ask for you. Good luck
2007-11-03 04:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Michael K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything's possible : )
this might sound strange but maybe you're straight but only attracted to one guy. but if you think you might be bisexual you should get to know the guy & see if you still like him afterwards. sometimes we think we like people, but we don't really know the real them. anyways, you might just be bi-curious ?
2007-11-03 04:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible. Get to know this other guy and see where things go
2007-11-03 04:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems u r not "bisexual"
but bicurious
that's kool :)
idk i may be wrong....u probably just confused
do u find him sexually attractive? do u want to kiss him?
do u the same feelings for him like u do the other girls?
i am bisexual myself ...u can email me and i can try to help u
i can be your friend
2007-11-03 05:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋