I think its a great idea to get to know someone and see if they fit your ideal partner views.
2007-11-03 00:21:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I did but it was in my head
2007-11-03 00:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE ROCK 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do nto do a physical checklist on paper or anything. It is more of a mental one cause I know what I really want and would like ot have in my ideal partner. So I just make notes in my head about particular people that I think there is potential for.
2007-11-03 03:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's very good thing to be picky on who you allow to be your partner, but!!! if you don't let loose of some of your demands in a partner then you will never get married. You have to grow into a relationship with someone attracts you and then true love ( I mean true love) if it's there then such will resolve all problems. You will not find the perfect one but one that will be perfect for you as no one is perfect!!!!! I would like to see your check list and show you which ones need to be taken off or changed and maybe even add some!!!!
2007-11-03 02:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eww no!!! So wrong!! So so very wrong!! It's fine to start out with a little list of a basic wish list, but that is usually figured out after the first few dates...No they are not a serial killer, yes they are sweet, no they don't set fire to their farts. Basic traits that you need in place before you open up to them.
Then you just spend time seeing if you work together, and that has nothing to do with any list you can think of. If you had a list, you would find 90% of it to be redundant, and by spending time with a person you'll find out more things that you never thought to ask, that suddenly become very important.
The big fact is, what you think is ideal, isn't. If you remember one thing from me,it is this...You like someone for their qualities, and you love them for their faults! You find out one morning that you are head over heals in love with someone that you can list a thousand faults in, but you wouldn't have them any other way. And besides, you couldn't stop loving them even if you wanted to.
So while a check list might seem like a good idea, just you wait until you do fall in love for the first time (because it's obvious you haven't fallen in love, you would know your list idea to be pointless if you had already).
Trust me on this, throw the list out and save yourself all the frustration of chasing an impossible idea, and see where life and love lead you. It's not your choice...As Snow Patrol say in their song "Chasing cars" ...."I don't know when...confused about how as well" You don't know you're falling in love, you get let into the secret when it's too late to do anything about it.
2007-11-03 00:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
After a painful divorce I promised myself I would not fall in love again. How's that for a "check list"? It did not work-sometimes you just can't limit the scope of who you will end up with. Love is love. You can try to avoid what you know is unacceptable-but it is hard to stick with or expect an ideal partner. Everyone has flaws.
My second marriage was great. He passed away though.
2007-11-03 04:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, no. He's not a grocery list.
I met my husband online, and after the first couple weeks and settling our religious differences, I already knew he was the one. We just moved forward from there. I never looked back, and I never had any regrets. We got married the following year. (He also converted a couple weeks before the wedding.) We've been married over nine years.
2007-11-03 02:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by kaz716 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,u can not have check list for ur partner,its a matter of heart,u will find a fight between HEART and MIND,ultimately u will find HEART wins the battle.
2007-11-03 05:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by prahlad d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No....If I have to do that....Then I have my answer....Know what I mean....?
I married when I was 18...Kinda tricked into it...Got divorced in a year and a half...Was in a relationship of 18 years, and wasn't married to him....Now I'm with a wonderful man and engaged...No list....Went with the heart....
2007-11-03 01:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by karens lovinlife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, that can be true when you want to zero in on someone you do not know, but when you already know someone for sometime then all comes down to how you understand each other in day to day life.
2007-11-03 00:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mani G.India 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO check list. Because Marriages are made in Heaven but broken on Earth.
2007-11-03 03:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Muthu S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a checklist is good, but it needs to stick to the basics. physically attractive, compatible religious views, mine includes being able to cook and do laundry (i suck at both), music styles, hobbies, my girl needs to like sports, etc
2007-11-03 02:35:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋