1. I don't know what size to get, because I obviously don't know how big or small this guy is, so are the sizes so different that it would REALLY make a difference? Like the condom would be useless if it's the wrong size?
2. If it is true that there is a big difference in condom sizes, is there anywhere I can get a "variety pack" of all different sizes? haha, I know that sounds sooo slutty, but yeah...
3. I never go to the store except with my mom (even though I'm old enough to drive, I just couldn't front the cash) so where could I get some condoms? be creative, people!
2007-11-02 17:42:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
sirbob: just because I'm broke as hell and didn't have enough money to get the test or driver's license, doesn't mean I'm not mature enough for sex...
2007-11-03 08:49:34 · update #1
Hey Crazy,
It wasn't all that long ago that I was wondering the exact same thing...
I've used just about ever make and model of condom on the market from your standard variety to the Magnum XL (just to see the difference). Keep this little fact in mind. The "Average" guy according to several published surveys is about 5.5" long erect and 4.5" in circumference. Something like 75% of guys are within an inch of this in both areas. For some reason my female friends tend to unload their sexual experiences on me and from those chats i've come to believe that most guys won't fulfill the average gals expectations (sad buy true...). So with this I give you the following advice...
Don't buy Magnums as much as you may want to make your guy feel good. This is because they are a bit bigger around than the regular variety and thus are more likely to "Slip off" if your guy isn't packing a cucumber.
Don't get the "ultra thin" condoms. This is because (From what I continuously hear) 90%+ of guys aren't doing this for you... they are doing it for themselves and thus they are finished in under 5 minutes (i'm sure the ladies on here can back this up). With this in mind you want to remove as much sensation from him as possible (with a thicker condom) so that he lasts maybe 1 minute longer.
Now... My favorite are the Trojan Ultra Ribbed Lubricated condoms. This provide a bit of extra lubrication for you which you will definately want. You may be more nervous than you think you'll be and this can cause you to be a bit dry. That sucks for you because you are going to get raw down there pretty fast. You can get a box of 36 for about $18 at Walgreens (There are never too many people in walgreens)... or a box of three for about $5 or so. When I was younger I was nervous about buying them and all that, but don't worry about that. The person behind the counter has sex too and you'll never see them again anyway. Just walk up... drop the box on the counter and hand over the money...
Best of luck to you,
-J
2007-11-03 07:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jake B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never go to the store without your mom - why should we think you are mature enough to start having sex with a guy?
If you are ready to take this step, just go buy some condoms. If this is too much responsibility for you - Dont have sex. (Imagine how fast you will have to grow up when you get pregnant, STD or AIDS).
Don't trust the guy to have them. You will be the looser here if he does not come prepared.
How to use:
Un-roll it a bit and pinch the end. Place the remaining part on the guy and un-roll.
The empty pouch should be at the tip and it is there to hold the sperm or it could leak out.
The link below should help.
2007-11-03 01:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At a party in college we blew condoms up as balloons. They got 2½ feet long and about 8 to 9 inches across. If any guy is bigger than that he will be in a circus act with the other elephants. The Magnum sizes are for the guys whose ejaculation is so weak that the normal condoms prevent it. You can get condoms almost anywhere, Wal Mart, any drug store, grocery stores, convenience stores, and in the bathrooms of many gas stations.
2007-11-03 00:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by boruma35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't get a variety pack of sizes, for the same reason you wouldn't but a multpack of bra's in different sizes.
The ones that didn't fit would be useless.
Ae you going to have sex with someone you've never seen naked, or asked about his size?
I bet he's asked you about your body, bust size, butt size, stomach... didn't you think of asking his 'vital statistics' too?
Ask him what condoms he normally buys, if he's sexually active and says he's never bought any that says a lot for how much he expects the woman to take responsibility.
Then get down to the store and buy some.
Or order them online.
In the UK we have 'poundland' where everything costs £1, someone mentioned dollar shops in the USA. Try them, over here we get 12 packs of approved condoms from them.
2007-11-03 10:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by paof2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO TO PLAN PARENT HOOD they'll give u lyke straight up a bag full of condoms 4 free !!!!!
2007-11-03 00:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a parenting clinic iono wats it called but its like a place where they help people with puberty and pregnancy and like sex stuff
2007-11-03 04:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me the money, and I'll go get it for you. Good enough, no?
2007-11-03 03:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by FILO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋