I believe that it is possible (though difficult) to change. I mean...I did. It's a long, difficult process that delves so much deeper than just sex. I mean, you're totally and completely re-wiring your mind. It will require a lot of patience, determination, hard work, and probably a ton of pain as well. Still, it is possible. Exodus International helped me understand it far better than I could otherwise. They released several books that helped me, including, 101 Frequently Asked Questions about Homosexuality, which was my personal favorite. I'll link you to their homepage, but it's based on Christianity and the concept that homosexuality is morally wrong. So if you're not looking at it from a religious standpoint, I don't know whether it'll be helpful or not. Why do you want to change?
2007-11-02 16:37:04
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answered by L B 2
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can't help it hun if your gay your gay... why not just be happy? Its easier said than done I know, so much intolerance in the world... really nothing wrong with being gay though.
2007-11-02 23:09:31
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't pick your orientation, you are what you are. I mean sure you can live a lie and go out with woman but you would only be hurting yourself. Just accept yourself for what you are and remember, you can't become straight.
2007-11-02 22:50:40
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answered by Ellen 2
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Why would you want to change yourself, why not just accept who you are. I am gay, and proud to be, I would never want to change how I feel or who I am.
2007-11-03 10:46:38
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answered by 1 2
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That's too bad, but I think you need more than reference to links....get some therapy on finding how to deal with your feelings and fears. D'n'D
2007-11-02 22:52:35
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answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4
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Closets are cramped, boring and uncomfortable, why would you want to live in one?
2007-11-02 23:21:18
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answered by nekhbet 5
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I dont want to be tall
Got any tips for that too?
2007-11-02 22:55:11
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answered by Anonymous
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dude we will miss you.
sorry don't know any links
2007-11-02 23:20:50
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answered by D.J. Corona 3
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deny you're gay you mean
2007-11-02 23:18:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, you should probably stop all sex with guys!!! LOL hehehehehehehehe
2007-11-03 00:07:55
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answered by Squirrel 5
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