I have been talking to this girl on aim for a year and a half and in that time I have seen her twice once at her work and once at a craft show for her sister both time she ran off to the bathroom when she saw me. The last time I saw her was 11 months ago and I since tried to hang out with her she says she wants to hang out with me but find reasons not to. I told her if she doesn’t want to see that’s cool but she says no that she wants to see me? She loves to flirt sexy pics ECT. I just wanted to hang out as friends and see were things go if nothing but friendship then fine I am not looking for sex I am waiting till marriage and have told her that many times. So I stopped talking to her cuz I just got sick of it all. Two weeks ago she text me saying should come over to her house.
I ignored it then I got on Monday saying that she did something that would make me proud and she would tell me if I responded. Then Tuesday she call me on my cell (which I left at home) and text me saying
2007-11-02 13:49:50 · 4 answers · asked by . 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
“why wont you ever answer to me”.
The back story with her is that she is 19 her parents are divorced .The dad cheated and got another girl pregnant. The dad was never there for her before and after the divorced.She was in a long distant relationship with a guy that wanted her for sex only for over a year. They broke up last year. Since then she has gone out with many guys all who she met online .And all of them have been jerks( her words) and just wanted sex and she knew that before going out with them. She just got new bf a 3 months ago who she met on hot or not (dating site).
She told me I know her better then her best girl friend that she has known for years. And better even then her sister. For some reason She cares what I think about her. She wants me to be proud of her and I have no idea why.
I hate not talking to her I feel like I am letting her down but she drives me crazy I both love and hate her. I know if I say “ hi” it will start again.
What is your advice?
2007-11-02 13:49:58 · update #1
She's blowing hot and cold on you. And it sounds like she has some emotional baggage.
I'd back off a little bit just in self protection. Tell her you're just giving her room, that you don't want to push. But really you're backing off to save yourself some trouble.
2007-11-02 14:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very immature and indecisive. You might do better telling her hoe you feel about her games.
2007-11-02 21:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you love her. Go for it but she won't do you any good. That's what love is: suffering the pain & agony for the one you truly love.
2007-11-02 21:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by etprn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ctd....... she needs you as a best friend, nothing more ( at least for a while if not forever. keep ur options open)
if you can handle the relationship that way. go for it.
save urself. it will be appreciated.
2007-11-02 21:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by cherry Loves the Lord God 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋