I'm a lesbian and I am in love with this straight girl. She hardly even notices me. I don't want her to turn lesbian for me or anything, I just want to get her out of my head. She dosen't even know that I'm lesbian or I like her. How do I forget about this girl? I can't even look at her pictures without my heart racing and my face turning blood red. Her smile lights up my life. How do I forget about this girl? I've prayed and prayed, but I keep liking her more and more. I've literally wanted to kill myself over this girl. It's so hard to want something you can never have. I can't take the whole "just give it time" thing anymore when time is just making it worse. Help? Nobody even knows that I'm a lesbian and I can't tell anyone without losing everyone. Please be nice and help!
2007-11-02 13:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by Megan H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi Megan! I am praying for you also! You then must stay away from this girl totally. Pray whenever she comes into your mind! I am here if you would like to have another pray for you. I am here to talk. Email me anytime you like!
2007-11-03 11:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have so many things locked inside. The enemy is trying to run havoc, and make you another victim. You prayed but did you fast? Did you seek guidance from others. Is there someone that you can trust to tell....You could be alto and do alot of things but u gotta have hope=) You have to believe that things will get better that this is the life that God doesn't want you to have.He has something better..way better for you.
2007-11-03 17:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl I know what your going though. When you think it is the right time just start talking to her and then put the words in "what would you do if a lesbian likes you but they dont know how to tell you and she knew you waz straight. what whou you do if that happen?" And if she ask you why you wanna know just say something like "I dont know I waz just thinking what you would say just there waz a girl that asked me out. So what would you do?" I hope that helped you some.
Good luck, best wishes BAMBI!!!
2007-11-02 20:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by ambercain1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can find some bi girls or lesbians to be around . it helps to be around people who just understand , without you explaining everything everytime . you will eventually find some romance . the straight girl will only be in the back of your mind .
2007-11-02 21:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is interesting to me that you said you prayed and prayed..... about forgetting this girl. I will pray for you too!
† On-call Prayer Warrior †
2007-11-03 17:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by bethy4jesus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well coming out will help with getting her off your mind even though it will be the hardest thing you ever do. not saying that its not worth it cuz it totally is but i cant see to many people hating you sure it will be weird for some people and you may lose touch with some friends but it will be worth it. this will help keep your mind off her or even maybe bring her closer to you. everbody has their little secrets
2007-11-02 20:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have had plenty of Q&A about this..... there are so many choices.
Choose wisely.
if you need someone to pray with please e-mail me
†EveryDay Prayer Warrior†
2007-11-03 17:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋