please help meI am infatuated with someone that already has a gf,I cant let get him out of my head,but at the same time I cant go up to him and tell him I like him ,
how can I get him to COME TO ME instead?
2007-11-02 13:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do you really want to be that manipulative a person?
You live your life. Be yourself.
If he breaks up with his girlfriend maybe he'll look at you.
Otherwise, while you're scheeming to get him away from his gf, you could be missing a wonderful guy in another direction. And it would serve you right.
2007-11-02 13:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By playing it cool but continuing to show him that you are interested and you are an interesting person to get to know. Don't make a nuisance or a spectacle of yourself, because nothing could be a bigger turn off for a guy than a girl who's throwing herself at him (esp when he's already involved with someone else) If it's meant to be a thing between you and him, then it will happen without or without your manipulation. Maybe in time, your infatuation will fizzle out and you will move on, or maybe it will grow into something more substantial, but it will not grow into anything more than it is right now, without both parties attending to it. So hang in there and see what will become of it. Good Luck!
2007-11-03 09:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Red 4 Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always a time and place for everything. Be patient. His relationship with his current girlfriend may wane, she may dump him, you never know what may be around the corner. If it's meant to develop at all, life has a way of presenting opportunities.
2007-11-02 13:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by autumlovr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man to like. This one has a girlfriend. Attempting to steal someone from their girlfriend or boyfriend can come back to bite you in the butt.
2007-11-02 13:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by smoofus70 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you wait until he's single? i mean...what if you were he's girlfriend and some biatch was trying to get him to come to her?
he will not "come to you" unless he's a dog and if thats the case...try "here boy, here boy"
if you can steal him from her, what makes you think the next girl wont steal him from you?
there are billions of guys in this world...chances are he's not the one you'll end up with.
2007-11-02 13:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not taken, I like angels, am Im your new guy? Ok I suppose not, secretly talk to him when he's not around his girlfriend a tough situation indeed, sadly I believe that's your only option for now, maybe he'll break up with her you never know you just never know...
so you up for that date tonight? Oh I mean I forget your after him not me Fine then....
2007-11-02 13:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back off.
He's taken.
How would you like someone to try to steal a man from you?
Grow up.
2007-11-02 13:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by michele 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear something soft and colorfull that shows you off a little and perfume will turn a head,, something that smells like sweet food ,, will a man clear around ,,,
2007-11-02 13:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be there for him im sure his gf dont know what she has Example:if he needs somebody to talk to be there and always look good when you know your going to see him that day
-good luck
2007-11-02 13:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by shaythewaytodate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
... I was in your place before... don't worry about him...
don't try hitting on him or making him jealous because it won't work, especially if he has a girlfriend...
If it was meant to be it w ill happen.... but chances are... as in my case... it isn't ....
2007-11-02 13:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by weirdkid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋