yeah so my brother and his friend claim that anal sex is kick *** cuz it won't impregnate the girl but i told them it was totally gay. they didn't believe me and think it's totally straight if it's between a girl and a guy. i however disagree and think and guy that likes it in the anus is atleast part fag. give me your thoughts please
2007-11-02 12:56:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Anal sex has nothing to do with being gay or straight. One is a sexual activity, the other is a sexual orientation. I prefer women (exclusively) so therefore I am considered "straight". However, I enjoy anal sex, which has nothing to do with my attraction to women (better to give than receive, though).
Ladies, when a guy wants to do you in the butt, you all should really stop thinking that he's gay. He doesn't want to do your brother in the butt, he wants to do YOU in the butt. The assuption that he is gay is just a defense mechanism you use to protect yourself from the idea that he finds your butt more attractive, mysterious, or interesting than your slit. It has nothing to do with your slit, and nothing to do with his sexual orientation. He just wants to do you in the butt. Sorry, it really IS that simple. Best of luck to all the "I don't do that"'s out there.
2007-11-04 15:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy for a year who loved anal sex. We broke up and ten years later he came out of the closet. So do I think it's totally gay? I sure can't see heterosexuals finding this the most pleasurable way and that line about not impregnating a girl is hogwash---there are lots of ways to prevent that. Plus heterosexual guys would generally care about giving the woman pleasure while they get theirs and that can't happen with the body part engaged with the woman---it's strictly a one way deal. I think the guy I dated was only dating women at the time because: 1) it was a cover to please his family, and/or 2) he wasn't really sure of his sexual orientation and he was experimenting and/or 3) he didn't have a clue, at the time, that he was gay and it only became clear to him after many failed relationships with women.
2007-11-02 13:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's from man to woman, though all anal sex it's unnatural and unhealthy, is not homosexual. The homosexual factor is not merely biological, but also socio-psychological. There are men who want or do that to their wives and never have the desire to do that to other men because they are only attracted to women. And there are women who want their husbands to or have him do that to them and never desire to do it with other women because they are only attracted to men. So, homosexuality is not merely anal sex, unless the same sex is there.
2016-02-06 04:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bravo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex is neutral. If its two males, its gay sex. If its a guy and a girl, its straight sex. Just like oral sex, or any other sex. How could heterosexual activity be gay??
Just wondering.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-11-02 13:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any sex between a man and a woman is not considered gay sex.
Gay sex is guy with guy or girl with girl.
2007-11-02 13:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by mrsbsy06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With that logic, then if 2 girls have sex but a vagina is involved, then it must be straight sex, because it's got a vagina... Oh, and if gay sex is just hand jobs, then since it wasn't near anyone's butt, then it must be straight sex... Because it's all that black and white, right?
Dumb....
2007-11-02 13:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by spinn_doktor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to think this through.
A man and a woman together is heterosexual.
Heterosexual is not gay.
So what the man and woman do together is heterosexual no matter where they connect up all of their parts.
Make sense?
2007-11-02 13:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gay sex = sex between two men
2007-11-02 13:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Between a Woman and a Man....
No, sorry, that spells HETERO.
2007-11-02 13:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope that is not gay at all....
in fact it makes you gay just for thinking that is gay
2007-11-03 18:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by ~SmiiLe NoW CrY LaTtEr~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋