My mother died in March, a week later I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.. a baby girl. Lately since her funeral I've been having dreams about her and the house she grew up in. Sometimes she's not there and the house is empty just how it is now. A couple weeks ago, I dreamt I followed a man to that house and I don't believe I knew him, well anyways, he told me to come inside. I was very reluctantant and had told him I didn't want to. He said I belong there and where else could I go. This dream really disturbed me, I live 4 hrs away starting a new family, but I keep dreaming about that house. My older siblings tell me that the house is haunted, and many people have died there including both of my parents who suffered fatal heart attacks. I have a strong desire to visit that house to stop the dreams but I'm also scared too. I shared this with my sister and she strongly discouraged me.
2007-11-02 10:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by ******* 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Could it be my mother or both my parents? Could it be that house?... or maybe I'm just stressed from the death of my mother and the upcoming birth of my baby?
2007-11-02 10:33:00 · update #1
It sounds like to me you have unfinished business or unresolved issues with your mother. She's not calling out to you beyond the grave. After a person dies the only way someone could be in contact with a dead loved one is through demons. And you don't want that because they are dangerous.
I think you need to get together with your sister(s) and have a girls night before your baby arrives and just reminisce on the good times and maybe talk through some things.
2007-11-02 10:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Crocodile Dundee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe house is not haunted dear. God doesn't let souls get lost and have to haunt. You are just having those dreams because your mother died and now your'e carrying a baby. Your hormones are out out of whack first of all. And the finalness of the death of a loved one overlapped by the news of a upcoming birth. You wish mom could be around to see your child and share those precious moments. You feel the guilt over being happy about the baby while you just recently buried a loved one. Let go, be happy. God's takin' care of your mother...and father. He's not letting their souls lie in limbo.
2007-11-02 10:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by zen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you're pregnant, your hormones are raging, which can sometimes cause odd and strange dreams. My dreams were crazy weird when I was pregnant, I talked to my doc about it and she said it was completely normal. And sure, you miss your mom, you thought she would be around to see her granddaughter, but things took a different turn for you both. I wouldn't stress too much over it, it's not good for you or the baby to be stressed. Mourn your mother and make sure your daughter knows how much she loves her, show her pictures of your mom when she's older too. It'll help you cope and give you a sense of closure.
2007-11-02 10:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by laura_paura 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strange things do happen.
If you feel a strong desire to visit the house talk it over with your husband.
If you still feel the desire, take your husband there with you and get it out of your system. Go in the day time.
This is just my personal unprofessional opinion.
2007-11-02 10:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom can visit you in your dreams. Go get a book called "We Don't Die" by Joel Martin and you'll understand all this much better. Talk to your mom out loud. She can hear you! You're probably dreaming of the house because you miss your mom and the time you spent in the house. I would go visit it and go in and talk out loud and tell the spirits there that they need to move on. But get that book!!!
2007-11-02 10:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Texas Horse Lover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be all of that. Whatever you do, don't move in the house. You should get an eerie feeling when you approach the house if there is an evil spirit dwelling inside.
2007-11-02 10:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by nita5267 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry about your Mom! Next week will be a year since my brothers death.You are going through grief! It's very,very hard to let go of someone we loved so much!
But,as my brother is at rest.The next face he will see will be Jesus'!
But he doesn't contact me! I keep his recording on the answering machine.His email address on my computer.It's a way of keeping him here.But,we need to let go! We have so,so many wonderful memories of our loved ones.It's my way of being selfish and not wanting him gone.But,he's not here.He lives on through his beautiful daughter.He made it,as he wanted to see her to her 18th birthday and graduate high school.He died one week before her 18th birthday!
Your pregnant,take care of your mom's granddaughter.Instead of ghosts,make your daughter a "Kisses from Grandma" scrapbook .Fill it with photos,write memories you have about your mom you want to share with your daughter.So,she can celebrate her life with you!Let her spirit of life live through you and your daughter.And she can share with her children!
The dreams are your anquish and missing her so much! Take care!Pray for me and I'll pray for you!
2007-11-02 10:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by need2know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you watch too many horror movies. Dreams are a dead on straight vision of your subcontious. Go there and let your feelings resolve it.
2007-11-02 10:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Abe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she could be...even in the BIBLE it says there is as such thing as ghosts and spirits!! this may sound crazy but talk to her sometimes. tell her how ur day went act like she is there listening to you..b/c chances are:: SHE IS!!
2007-11-02 10:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by notcha_business09 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't go for that bible stuff. I just think that the dead can communicate with us if we listen.
2007-11-02 10:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋