how much do they cost.. this is a serious question, i dont need ppl telling me to keep the baby or any of this...we are not ready for a baby... ='[
2007-11-02 09:15:44 · 40 answers · asked by desmondtiny391 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Are you God to say you are not ready for a baby? There is no such thing as "not ready for a baby" if you have one. You may not be in the best position to care for it, but regardless you have it. You can give it up for adoption to someone who is ready, but it is sick to think that you have the right to murder someone who is not only extremely young, but defenseless. That is sick. You will be a murderer, a cold blooded murderer. a baby-killer on top of it, and worse, a murderer of your own child. Worse yet, is that you were warned, truthfully warned that it is wrong for you to do so. The cost? The cost will be potential suicidal thoughts for the rest of your life and intense pain in Hell, a place of total darkness and people screaming out in pain and crying in sorrow, for all eternity.
Why do you say you are not ready?
What's wrong, are you afraid of hearing crying everyday? Are you telling us you are a weak-minded person?
Afraid of not being able to afford diapers? Go to a church and get some.
Afraid your friends will make fun of you? Well hello, that doesn't mean go kill an innocent person or a baby.
Afraid you won't be able to afford enough food? Go to church and or get food stamps. It takes two or more hours to get food stamps but so what, it's free food, and you get a lot.
Afraid of not being loving enough? Then turn to God and get forgiveness and eternal life and he will make you permanently loving.
You can find out how to get eternal life here, on this one page explanation, which says all you need to know and do, it's simple, but the hard part is being sorry you sinned: http://www.hotlinkfiles.com/files/429482_sd1iq/thegospel.html
There is no excuse for murdering a baby.
2007-11-05 18:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think they are around 600 but you will never fully menatlly repair. My friend had an abortion when she was 16 she is now 25 and cannot have children of her own. There is too much scar tissue for the abortion, she cannot have an egg implant. She is now about to spend 35,000 to adopt. Please please consider adoption...not for you but for the people out there who would give anything for a baby. It would be the best gift you would ever be able to give. You have no idea how many people i know who are praying for people like you to choose adoption. They already have the nursery set up. I know so many infertale couples. I am not telling you what to do, just letting you know the other side. and for you the adoption for you would be free and most of the time all of the medical cost would be paid for you. I think it is very mature to admit you are not ready...i am not saying you should be...but think about the life in you and what a great life you would make someone have by giving them what no one else can!!! I think you would benefit alot from adoption rather then abortion. I also believe in karma and if you choose adoption that garentees great karma for you. I will pray that you make the desicion that is right for you...and remember my friend that is now not able to have children you may want them one day.
2007-11-02 09:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by mominkansas03 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
it depends. a first trimester term can cost anywhere from $250-$450. a second trimester term can cost more. i would contact a local planned parenthood or a women's center in your area.
also, if you are sure you want to terminate, do it as soon as possible as the risks increase with longer gestation.
also- i find it disgusting that others are trying to dictate another woman's reproductive choice! although infertility is difficult ,it's not the job of a pregnant woman to stay pregnant so that a childless couple can parent. i mean, are we breeders now? i really wish people would get that point clear. also, it's a bit tired that we are still bad-mouthing women for having sex. how many of YOU have had unprotected sex and were lucky enough to not get pregnant? i thought the bible said something about not judging people...
whatever the outcome this woman will deal with that, in her own way.
jeez...
good luck
2007-11-02 09:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by tish 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think around 200-400 without insurance. I hope everything turns out okay, don't go through something that YOU are not ready for. I bet it is really stressful having all these people on here trying to talk you out of it, when you have already made up your mind (i mean they aren't even answering your question). Good luck and I hope everything turns out okay.
To one of the answer-ers: Just because she is pregnant doesn't mean she had unprotected sex. Condoms break and birth control is not 100% effective. You sound ignorant and you need to get off the Internet and get your head into some books.
2007-11-02 09:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shelbi =) 5 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Usually between $350-$700 - it depends on where you are, how far along the pregnancy is, etc.
Call 1-800-230-PLAN - Planned Parenthood can help you answer your questions.
Edit:
Reading some of the other answers, you're getting some bad information about risks involved - the people at Planned Parenthood can give you the true information about the procedure and risks involved.
2007-11-02 09:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Please DON"T keep the baby because you obviously are not ready for one, give it up for adoption! if you are trying to hide humiliation by getting one you are to immature to be having Sex and People aren't mean for saying the things they say you posted and open question! So many women each year get diagnosed with cervical cancer or other female problems and cannot conceive children what a blessing it would be to them if you could give them the gift of life its a beautiful thing! I know a family that couldn't get pregnant and a girl was going to get an abortion then ended having the baby for them and they are so blessed and the girl is so happy that she didn't commit murder, in Gods eyes!
2007-11-02 09:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Amberlyn 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
don't abort when the baby is born give him/her up for adoption.
then ask yourself these questions
1. would I have want my mom to abort me?
2. why would I kill a innocent baby?
3. if we were not ready why did we not use condoms
4. what would my family think of me?
5. am i going to want another baby down the road if i don't want this one.
6. am i ready to kill or adopt the baby im carrying
there are a lot of people who are unable to have children who love to adopt.
if you have answerd no to one or more questions then i would keep the baby
2007-11-02 09:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
I'm sorry, I know that this is exactly what you didn't want to hear, but; PLEASE! Please, please, please, do not abort the baby. Put it up for adoption. There are so many women out there who can't have babies, and they would love to be in your situation. That's not fair to them. By aborting the baby, you're murdering it; a little blessing from God given directly to you. God bless that child. Besides, you don't seem like you're all that haapy about making this decision (your heading, with the :( ) Am I right? Why don't you give the baby a chance to live? If you don't, it'll be something that will haunt you for the rest of your God-given life. I don't mean to be mean, but; I hope that you can deal with that.
note: all the people that are talking about how you should abort, and trying to seem like they are supporting you are just trying to get voted as best answer. I'm not trying to disagree with them, about the sex part; maybe something did happen that was beyond your control during sex,and you got pregnant, but murder is never the answer.
2007-11-02 09:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 5⤋
about 500 dollars for a surgical, but non-surgical (morning after pill) i would think is much less, you will have to call the clinics in your area. And i understand how hard this is but i hope you have a good support system. good luck and be healthy. After this look at birth control options, so next time your ready. When i was 16 i wasn't and now im ready for my baby now that i have the coorect support to rasie a child. I hope your future is bright.
2007-11-02 09:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
Please do not listen to all of the anti-choicers here.. They're pro-slavery in a way, and most of them are also anti birth control. I bet NONE of these idiots here have ever even considered adoption, they only want to put you through pain and put a child through the pain of being unwanted.
This is something you ask whoever is to perform the abortion. It varies depending on doctor and state.
2007-11-02 10:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋