Does it increase your attraction and respect for him?
2007-11-02 09:09:54 · 32 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If it's sincere, sure - let's you know they can handle being wrong sometimes.
If I can apologize for being a b*tch or being wrong, I think my boyfriend owes me the same courtesy if he's being a douchebag or does something wrong.
2007-11-02 09:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by nixity 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how furious I am at him and what he is apologizing for. If it is something minor like being home 15 minutes late or something like that, then yes. This means that he respects me and that is always a turn on. If he is apologizing because he majorly screwed up, no amount of apologizing is going to turn me on. I can hold a grudge for a long, long time!!
2007-11-02 09:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my beloved apologizes it means he is truly sorry and it is not a turn on but rather showing respect and consideration to me and when I am not kind and I know it. I apologize to my husband as well. It is very important to show eachother love and respect through your marriage and not let it all hang out and save your bad moods for your spouse if you would not talk to your superiors at work, pastors, family and friends in a snappy, fresh nasty fashion one should not talk to thier spouse that way they should get MORE consideration. Sometimes in family we get comfortable with one another and leave our dirty underwear around (concerning attitudes) and are rude to our spouse and family and not others, this always bothered me about someone in our family was excactly like this. My point is treat your spouse as good and even better than you treat everyone else:)
2007-11-02 09:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT WOULD!
In all honesty, and I hate to say this, or even reveal this, my husband does not say sorry....I remember one time he said sorry and meant it.
And then one time I brought up something that really hurt me and he said sorry but acted like it should not of hurt me....so in all honesty the man needs to be softened. He really does and I pray continually for the Lord to do that. He loves the Lord, but has always been a bit hard at heart towards many things ( just not God)
2007-11-02 12:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mandolyn Monkey Munch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn on...lets me know that he cares about my feeling or is man enough to admit he was wrong. I find that to be attractive in a guy.
2007-11-02 09:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologizing shows you're not to proud to admit that you're wrong once in a while. Any guy who apologized to me and meant would be a major turn-on.
2007-11-02 09:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say it is a turn on for me, but it does make me admire him for respecting me that way, if his apology is sincere that is.
2007-11-02 09:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The word "amazed" comes to mind since it happens so infrequently. Turned on? Hardly.
2007-11-02 09:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Noo - not at all - lol.
Mostly with each apology I just think to myself ('instead of saying sorry - how about just not doing that anymore')
Apologys are needed but for me it doesn't necessarily make things okay - just a little better than they might be otherwise.
Just don't F up period.
2007-11-02 09:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by svmainus 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Definately increases my attraction and respect.
2007-11-02 09:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋