How Do I Tell My mom i Am Pregnant(im 15 years old)?

Question

i slept with my boyfriend i regret every second of it i took a pregnancy test this morning and it tested positive. I have took several and they are all testing positive, I am also showing early signs morning sickness etc. i tried talking to my boyfriend and he is just ignoring me i feel like crap. How do i tell my mom she is really religious (mormon) And she doesnt beieve in having sex b4 marriage. I am really scared how should i tell her she said if she ever caught me sleeping around she would be dissapointed in me any advise that would be great thnx

btw im only 15 yrs old

Answer 1

uhmm wow!!! thats hard.....i would tell her while you are at dinner(in public) that way she ant scream n things like that....also as for him..u have to find a way to talk to him

Answer 2

I can understand you really well. Because I am 15 and a half years old and pregnant too. Are you considering abortion? If ur not, then you must tell your mom right away. Remember, taking care of a baby will be very hard I guess. I myself am keeping my baby. But about telling your mom, be sure ur siblings and father isn't home and take ur mom and speak to her right away. I couldn't do it so I wrote a note explaining everything at night, left it on her table and went to school. When I was back my mom was disappointed but couldn't be angry because I was carrying a baby and it is her About ur boyfriend, make sure he doesn't spread it around. You should tell the school after ur 3rd month, when ur sure you aren't having a last minute abortion. These sources I wrote are very very useful. Good luck!! And if you have any more questions, just email me!!

Answer 3

First of all, I think you're in a really stressful situation and should probably be seeing a counselor (maybe at your school) so that s/he can cater to your situation.

In my opinion, you should make sure that you set aside a time with your mom to sit down and tell her. She's probably going to cry when you tell her, but everything will be all right. I had just turned 20 and was unmarried when I found out that I was pregnant. It was really scary for me, especially to tell my father. The truth is, everything turned out all right in the end.

Make sure you know what you want. You have the option to keep the baby or give the baby up for adoption. Know what you'd like to do before you talk to her so that you don't end up being turned over to church elders to make the decision. Good luck.
I promise everything goes all right.
Truly, I'd keep the baby if I was you--it's the greatest blessing in the world.

Answer 4

okay I was 16 when I became pregnant and had to tell my mother...she just looked at me, got up from the couch, walked into the kitchen...walked past the living room in to the restroom and didn't come out or talk to me again...it was a few weeks before she finally talked to me like normal people but she was not mean or made me have an abortion...
I guess worse case scenario is she will just be mad, and ignore you and you will feel sad and know you disappointed her but she will still be your mother and even though she wont like what you said she will still love you at the end of every day and pray for you every day like she did when you where in her wound.
Talk to her, tell her you need her love, guidance and that you're SO sorry to have disappointed her. Tell her how much you love her...don't stop telling her how much you love her so that she can look past her disappointment and remember you're still her little girl.

Answer 5

Oh that is such a hard thing to deal with especailly when your boyfriend isnt being supportive about it. Do you want the child? If you do don't let anyone stop you. Your mom or your boyfriend CANNOT BY LAW force you to have an abortion. So if this is what you want your bes bet is just to tell ur mom streight up. She will be disapointed im 19 and prego and my mom is disapointed and so is the rest of my family but to be honest their reactions were better than id expect. Youll be suprised. Just tell her. Its all your can do.

Answer 6

Should've tried to be careful, but thats over now. Just try to look on, raising a child is going to be a difficult task, not something that people cannot do. Because of your young age you are going to have some obstacles to overcome. You should sit down and plan things out for the future in response to the impending baby arrival. Telling your mom, your going to have to sit her down, she'll probably cry a little but, your going to have to tell her eventually. Build your courage up and just sit down with her one night and tell her. Your going to be a mom too now, and your going to have to face the facts and the future, good luck and congratulations.

Answer 7

I am a 15yr old Mormon. What I would suggest is telling your mom and talking to your bishop about it. I have had to talk to my bishop and yes it is embarrassing but you can get help if you really need it. If you are really nervous about talking to your mom, don't wait. You can talk to your bishop first (if you go to church or not) and he can give you advice on talking to your mom. You just need to tell her. Remember that she has experience with being pregnant and can help you when it gets hard. As for your bf I think that it has hit him hard but if he truly loves you he will call back. If he doesnt then go to his house and confront him in person about it. Don't wait until the signs start showing. Your mother might get upset but she loves you and wants the best for you.

Answer 8

It's difficult but I can relate. I'm past all that now, thankfully.
I'm 17 and pregnant. My mom flipped out on me when she found out. I now live with my boyfriend and his mom.
If your mom really loves you, she will help you and your baby.
My mom didn't because we never got along. Never met eye-to-eye.
Make sure she's in a fairly good mood when you tell her.
Explain to her how nervous you are to tell her, and that you are so sorry and regret it. Tell her that you are going to have a healthy pregnancy and take care of yourself and your baby and eventually figure out what you will do for your future.
You have so many options but PLEASE stay in school.
There are so many things to considor. Everything will be fine and you will get past all of this.
Feel free to e-mail me anytime. My e-mail is in my profile.

Best of luck !

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Answer 9

Honestly I've been in a similar sit. the only way to do it is to just flat out tell her. Sit her down tell her you have something important to talk about and let it out. She will probably cry, maybe yell, or possibly not say anything at all. What's done is done, she can only be mad for so long.

Answer 10

Well I was 14 when I had 2 tell my momma I was pregnant. I just told her cuz I had 2 go to the doctor 4 a pap smear, and she asked was I pregnant. But she saod she already knew. I was scared. Just sit down with her and tell her. Make sure you tell her you know she's disappointed in you. And you are mad at yourself. E-mail me back and tell me how it goes. [e-mail]. Good Luck

Answer 11

It's not going to be easy; I can guarantee you that. But think about it this way; if you don't tell her eventually, she's going to find out. What happens to stomachs when pregnant? They swell up, right? So, she's going to find out, whether you like it or not. It would wise for you to tell her now, before she can find out. Just tell her that you have something important to tell her, sit her down, and tell her that you made a big mistake. Tell her your mistake, and that you're pregnant. Make sure to keep your voice soft, that might help her keep calm.