this is going to be the first and only time i'm going to spill out my mind to anyone, and i think i need a lil help. on the outside of me, ppl see a very quiet guy, he keeps to himself all the time, he's barley active and hardley likes talking to ppl. prefers to be alone and watch others live their life. my inside thoughts: i keep to myself because i like to think about a lot of stuff. i my own little world in my head and i can't stop living in there and get out of it and be more active. i'm one of those ppl who "have their head up their a'ss". i don't really care about anything cause i have my own little adventures, my own little life, whatever fairytale in my head and i never pay much attention what's around me. i lost my virginity to some girl when i was 6 (simple explanaition, i was exposed to porn too early) i got caught and was punished for it. ever since then, i never had a GF. something in my mind can't seem to actually accept a relationship with someone else. any comments? =(
2007-11-02 07:19:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
by the way, i'm 18 now
2007-11-02 07:22:49 · update #1
I, myself, don't think it matters much if you live inside your own head so long as you function well enough to support your habit, but I think you are rationalizing. I sense that you are closing yourself off from the world more out of fear than out of a desire to live in your own world, and that is not really living. I think you should see a counselor. I don't think the world is all bad and someone can enjoy an outside life as well as an inside life. Real freedom is being able to choose between them, and to do that you must develop enough experience of both to move seamlessly between them.
2007-11-02 07:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Fix" ? I disagree with the word, more likey say that you need ways to better live with yourself and your mind. So you live in a fantasy world... I wish I could constantly! It's not a problem as long as you take care of you body too. What is reality except that which you percieve? Your own reality may be better than the commonly accepted one, there's no reason you shouldn't choose that one over our's.
2007-11-02 15:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cogito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋