My friend who is a guy is my new roomate.Everything seemed fine until once in awhile i would see him coming out of the shower naked. To tell you the honest truth i didnt mind at all at first because he has the best body i have ever seen because he goes to the gym all the time. As time went on i started to see him naked more frequently and he would think nothing of it. It started to make me uncomfortable because he would come out of the shower naked and walk right in the living room with his penis swinging side to side. I tell him to get some clothes on but he laughs it off. It wouldnt be as bad if he was built normal but his penis is so large, probably about 10-11 inches long and really fat so that you cant help but notice because its all over the place when he walks. I guess the last straw for me was when i saw him hard as a rock, yesterday with his two hands wraped around it jerking off in his bed in clear view i know all guys do it but is he disrespecting me. Any advice....thanx
2007-11-02 06:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
He is being disrespectful violating your baoundaries like that. Did you know he's a home nudist?
If not, then he is taking advantage of a female roomate and trying to make you horny so you want to have sex.
If you want him to stop, tell him no more or he gets kicked out. Tell him it grosses you out, even if it doesn't. Nothing more embarassing then if a guy is told he looks unattractive naked to a female.
2007-11-02 09:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's showing off and has too large an ego (not to mention anything else) for it even to occur to him that you may not be entirely comfortable with this. He probably thinks you fancy him and that he has a chance with you.
If you have made it really clear to him that you would prefer him not to do any of this and he continues to ignore your wishes, that would be disrespectful. If you haven't made it clear, then do so. Wait until he is fully dressed then raise it as a serious issue.
Some guys are total jerks and need things spelt out in no uncertain terms.
2007-11-02 06:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definately that is beyond the line. A man should never be naked in front of a woman unless they are dating. Jerking it knowing your watching is probably a turn on to him and should be taken as an insult. Definately time to move out and in with a more respecting person. There are boundries when your living with someone and it sounds to me like this guy doesn't respect those. A real gentleman would have avoided being naked in front of you at all costs.
2007-11-02 06:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by w_woody 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he WANTS you to see him naked. What a weird situation to be in. I would seriously sit him down (fully clothed) and tell him that his being naked in the common rooms of your apartment is really inappropriate. Not to mention jerking off openly for you to see. I mean c'mon...shut the door or something. Was he raised in a jungle? Was he raised by apes? Sh*t...IS he an ape? Sounds like he could be by the way you're describing his penis!! lol
I would talk to him on a serious ground otherwise nothing will change. He might just think you're kidding when you tell him to get dressed. ???
2007-11-02 07:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by MeLikey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is disrespectful. I'm not sure that it is intentionally disrespectful or if he thinks that maybe he is impressing you or turning you on. I would just tell him that if you two are going to remain roommates then he is going to have to keep his clothes on in your presence. I would also say that in the future if he wants to masturbate to please do it in private. Tell him you are offended by his walking around nude and playing with himself in front of you. Maybe he hopes you will do the same. Either way if it is making you uncomfortable then you have to speak up about it. If he continues after that then he is definitely being disrespectful and you may want to find a new roommate.
2007-11-02 06:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am suspicious of any question that mentions athletic men with enormous cocks, but giving the benefit of the doubt, if you are not cool with his being naked in your presence I think he should stop. Having said that if he refuses you might have no choice but to put up with it or find somewhere else to live.
2007-11-05 22:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are the sexy ones like this
ugh
just tell him to put some clothes on now
be a little more respectful
then maybe you guys would have a chance as a couple
and he wouldnt have to jerk off eveyday
2007-11-02 07:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Stace! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being disrespectful.
This is the early stages of a relationship where he will keep pushing and testing his limits until it gets physical.
I do not think you're safe.
He needs to go. Now.
2007-11-02 06:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Stuart 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Well tell hiim to put away the one eyed wonder or you are moving out. Why don't you slam the bathroom door on his crank a few times, he will never whip it out again.
2007-11-02 06:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh man...i wish i was there we could tag team on him! He wants you girl. you try coming out the shower naked in front of him and see what happens. Im so jealous!
2007-11-02 10:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋