2007-11-02 05:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by viazanetti4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no its not cheating..its just talk..its only cheating if it leads to something physical
2007-11-02 07:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it's cheating. You are sharing an intimate, private, sexual moment with someone other than the person you are in a monogamous relationship with.
Notice it's called "cyber sex" and not :cyber it's not cheating because we're not physically touching so it must be ok".
What do yo do? You treat it like you would if the two people were having physical contact rather than on the phone or computer or whatever. It's still sex either way.
2007-11-02 13:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cyber sex is a form of cheating although it may not be physically cheating your cheating emotionally and that is still just as bad. Let me put it this way, if your boyfriend/girlfriend was having online sex with someone other than you how would that make you feel? Would you be happy about it? Would you be upset? If my husband were having cyber sex online with other woman i would be pissed, i would probably end our marriage.
2007-11-02 13:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. And as long as you are touching yourself and thinking of touching who ever you are talking with it is cheating. What starts out over the computer can lead to the real thing down the road wither with the person your cybering with or another.
Let's put it this way. Are you or who ever your with doing this act in front of you or vise versa? Not. I am sure that they or you aren't. They are trying to hide the fact. Why? Because it is wrong and the feel gulity for this act. That is why they are trying to hide it.
If it is you stop!!!!! If it is someone else confront them and tell them how this is making you feel!!!! It isn't right. And if you can type or say nasty things to someone you don't know on the computer what is going to stop you from doing the deed later on down the road and really crossing that line.
It's wrong. You are cheating with your mind.
2007-11-02 13:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by rockn75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don’t really know if it’s cheating. On the one hand, your not actually with someone physically. It’s a fantasy… to me it’s about the same as people who “imagine” they are with someone else while having sex with their partner. So would that be cheating? You are with your partner, but you are wishing they were someone else.
On the other, you are talking to a live person and sharing a sexual experience. And that would be cheating.
So…interesting question.
2007-11-02 13:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by kib_edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating!! It's just like having an emotional affair. You don't have to do the physical aspect of it to be cheating. And you need to talk to this SO and tell them how you feel and if they don't care move on reguardless of it is physiacl or not cheating is cheating and once a cheater always a cheater!
2007-11-02 13:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, any form of one party extending out of the marriage for such fullfillment is indeed cheating. i.e. cyber sex, confiding in a coworker what you should your spouse, etc. Ask yourself the question: "if my spouse knew about this, would he/she be hurt?" If the answer is even a maybe, you should be questioning your actions.
2007-11-02 13:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jen G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating. Anything that you can not or would not do in front of your spouse that involves any kind of sexual intentions is cheating. Get your information and all your facts straight and confront them, It's so easy for someone to hide it unless you know where to find it at.
2007-11-02 13:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by brandy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not cheating. I mean ultimately it is up to the two people to decide for themselves what each other would consider cheating or not, but if having cyber sex is cheating then anyone who simply says they are going to kill someone should be tried for murder. I can talk about screwing another girl and that is cheating, but if I threaten to kill someone it is terroristic threatening and not murder. It is the same principle people. Everyone knows that anything in life....talking about it and doing it are two completely seperate things.
2007-11-02 13:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
it is absolutely cheating. You're doing something with someone that you shouldn't be doing. Regardless if it's face to face or screen to screen, the intent of being with someone else makes it cheating, in my eyes.
2007-11-02 13:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋