Everytime i have sex with my boyfriend i feel uncomfertable and i always need a wee, its starting to make me uninterested in sex because i do not enjoy it anymore! i also seem to get bad stomach cramps after as well, can anyone help, or does this happen to anyone else? thanks xx
2007-11-02 05:45:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
try changing positions - it is normal for you to need a wee if the front wall of your vagina is being continually stimulated - some women actually release small amounts of wee when they are stimulated to orgasm on the frontal wall - after all this is also where the g spot is located.
if your bf is not careful he may hurt you internally causing bruising and hence cramps- in extremis you may hurt an ovary and that hurts similar to a man being kicked in the groin.
lube up, slow it down and tell him to be careful and considerate - if this doesn't help see a doctor.
Sex is not supposed to be a chore it is definitely supposed to be enjoyable - if you don't enjoy it the way you are doing it change the way you do it.
2007-11-02 05:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Andy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to go n get a Pap done. This used to happen to me and i had abnormal cell growth and needed a minor operation to remove them. Or, could be that u r not moist enough down there too, try some lube. It makes things nice;) !
2007-11-02 05:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by foreverlostprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could propose addressing this subject along with your dr to verify if a hormone imbalance must be inflicting this. as a results of fact the others have stated you will possibly have surgical treatment to cut back the dimensions of the labia minora however the surgical treatment itself isn't without danger. I had the surgical treatment completed just about 10 years in the past and that i in basic terms ended up with greater problems after the surgical treatment. Pls handle this subject along with your dr to verify what they propose.
2016-11-10 01:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by fones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not wet enough it'll feel very uncomfortable. Spend more time on foreplay, a bit of tongue action goes a long, long way!
2007-11-02 05:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen your gyno about this? There are things such as endometriosis and PCOS that can cause uncomfortable sex. Both are treatable!
2007-11-02 05:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kyoko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of good answers here already, what positions do you use? Maybe if you were on top you can decide when he should penetrate you and wait till you are really turned on?
2007-11-02 06:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur not turned on enough, have a lot more foreplay n don't let him drill till u think u ready/ on
2007-11-02 05:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by xy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not wet enough
2007-11-02 05:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say how old you are lauren, and if you are still a teenager, I am not surprised that you aren't enjoying it, your body is still not mature enough to enjoy intercourse, there is a physical reason for waiting until your mid twenties to do it.
2007-11-02 05:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
you have a yeast infection
2007-11-02 05:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by only the truth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋