my friend is gonna tell my teacher that i've been cutting my arms and legs!!!!!!!! i dont want her to tell any1 and i dont know wat to do!! plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-02 05:34:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just told us.
2007-11-02 05:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you don't want her to tell anyone. It's a personal problem. Your friend is being just that: a friend. If she didn't want to do it, she wouldn't be your friend. And she's a good one.
This is really serious. A lot of girls actually cut themselves and for various reasons. Whatever your reason is.. check out this website and read a little bit into it.
http://www.focusas.com/SelfInjury.html
You definitely don't want to go so far as to SERIOUSLY injure yourself especially if by accident. Whatever you have to do, get some professional help. Talk with someone who won't judge you or make you feel like you're in trouble because of it.
2007-11-02 05:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by iammai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if she really is your friend she WILL tell your teacher. Cutting isn't a normal thing for a person to do and you need to get help. If you can't ask for help you should be blessed that you have a friend who loves you enough to tell.
2007-11-02 05:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Doh Doh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is looking out for you. If you don't want her to tell someone, then you talk to someone first. You really do need to get some help. The possibility of infection aside, cutting yourself is a symptom of some serious problems. Talk to someone today. Please.
2007-11-02 05:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kay3535 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl, I think you may need some help in determining what is causing you to cut yourself and helping you deal with it. She may be the best friend you've ever had and you not even realize it. It takes guts for her to do this so try not be mad at her. Good luck.
2007-11-02 05:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Einstein 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you cutting your arms and legs??
Tell your friend that you are going to talk to a therpist and get some help. And thats not a lie, you must get some help.
2007-11-02 05:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by I ? my assets. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tell the teacher yourself, and tell her you need to see a counsellor, or that you do it for..whatever reason. Friends who care get help, and show concern. Your friend is trying to do the right thing.
2007-11-02 05:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by somerled_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you don't want people to know and don't want to be confronted with this problem but I honestly think this may be the best for you. i know your life must seem hard but you need help and it's not healthy for you to do this to yourself! God loves you so much and has an incredible plan for your life and it's not for to be cutting yourself! Please feel free to e-mail me consecratedtogod07@yahoo.com I'd love to chat with you and help in any way I can!
2007-11-02 05:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant stop your friend from telling and to tell the truth you really shouldn't keep that a secret and your friend is doing a good thing dont become mad at her about it, maybe shes just looking out for you and worried about you, i would be if you were my friend.
2007-11-02 05:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone. A teacher would be a good place to start. Hang in there. You will feel better someday.
2007-11-02 05:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a serious issue that needs to be dealt with NOW! Talk to an adult you trust ASAP! Good Luck dealing with whatever it is that is going on,
2007-11-02 05:40:01 · answer #11 · answered by Joan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋