Make him last longer?

Question

Ok i know he can last longer he has done it before. but latley its over in like 10min. thats barley getting me started! I know he gets super excited and i do all the work and try new things all the time! ive tryed doing 4play then having sex but still same thing ive tryed 4play sex then sex again after he cums. maybe after cuming so much he wld last longer..::like before:: ..but now its still over in 10 min. WHAT THE HECK why all the sudden has it changed to where now i cant even get close? we have tryed thoes creams but thoes just make it num , hes 25 and im 19. I cant ever brng it up cause he gets insecure and feels less like a man he says. but hes really good n bed..if only he cld last LONGERRR

the first comments LOL. ive told him to make it last and it makes him insecure and feel like crap. we have been together for longer then a yr and still havnt came ..close but not close enough. every time i was about to he wld be done! and id be like a dog in heat humpen the air lol ..

HELP.. i need good answers. dont make fun lol

we still do 4play. all the time even after being together soo long! and we do diff things allll the time. ::me being a freak::.. and we do it in diff places. we do it dif ways fast slow ..intimate. and now that we are falling super hard for eachother it feels even better! its amazing. and we do take it slow and he will go down on me ..but gets him even more excited and bam its over! and when i want to do it again rite after..im to idk scared to say lets do it again, or ill start kissen on him and "rapeing" lol him but doesnt go anywhere =(

Answer 1

10 min of actual intercourse is WELL above normal.
Be grateful or take matters into your own hands.

Answer 2

I use the Vydox product referred to by that Edward LeBlanc doctor guy on here, and it works like a Charm. For some time I was unable to achieve a decent hard-on.. and if I did, it was ever rarely fully erect. On top of that, I would always ejaculate after only a few minutes of stimulation. It was embarrassing as fvck. One day I remember seeing a commercial on TV talking about Vydox, which sparked my interest. They only charge S&H for the first Month's supply to test it out. So I did. I haven't had much of any problem since. I hear doing these things called "Kegal" exercises can also help a great deal.

Answer 3

Greetings. My name's Edward LeBlanc, an M.D in the field of Sexual Health. (Both Men and Women's) .. I find that in most cases, these issues can be remedied with Therapy. Generally, most ED conditions result not from blood circulation problems, but rather we often find a deeper root cause. Most cases of ED tend to be caused by performance anxiety, trust, or some other intimacy deficit occurring between you are your partner. That being said, if we do recommend anything, we only recommend natural solutions. We advise against using any narcotics for this purpose.

When using narcotics, you risk developing addiction and dependency. We always point our patients in the direction of Vydox - https://vydox.im .. Their mixture of ingredients is particularly potent where L-Argenine is concerned. L-Argenine is an amino acid, often revered as nature's most potent remedy for ED. Our office has received consistently positive feedback on it's effects. I believe they still send out a 30 Day trial supply, only asking that you cover the cost of shipping.

Regards

Answer 4

Hello

There are many ways to do that, with practice and experience he can do it better. You and your bf can start to begin with Tantra, it's very helpful and I can recommend it to you.

I practice it for 3 years with my girlfriend and the sex is very good. Important is always to make your girlfriend happy, have a good dinner, take a bath together, bring her to the bad, kiss her and the whole body, make a massage and then play with your tongue. After that have intercourse with her, a the beginning don't put the whole penis inside only half make it 3 or 4 times and then introduce your whole penis.

A good positions is when she's up and your down, so she can control the rhythm and you will not come so quickly. Before you ejaculate try to stop and let your penis out, than introduce it slowly and continue to have sex.

Sometimes he can control your orgasm other times not, that's normal and not something to be worry about. Important is always that he makes you happy, after that he will come quickier he can kiss and caress you until he will be ready for the second, third.... time. You girlfriend can be active at him and please him too.

The woman is important too, because she must be active and not always passive. You can do a lot of things, that he will not come so quickly.

A good solution it's that your boyfriend use Cialis an ED drug which can help, too. He can visit a doctor and talk with him, he sure will give him a prescription for it.

Viagra or Cialis, they are very effective and he will have good, strong and long lasting erections. The Viagra is more for a good night because it works for 4 to 5 hours. He and you must planning the sex and he will take it 1 hour before sex.

With the cialis he can take it 1 hour before and it will work till 3 days in his system. He can have spontaneous sex and do it more times than Viagra. The erections on Viagra are harder, but with Cialis they're enough for good and satisfied sex.

Side effects with Viagra: Red Eyes, Red Face (like pornstars have). With Cialis: less one's

I would recommend to your bf to use the Cialis, because it has less side effects and it works for a long time. I have used Cialis a few times and it works very well and I didn't have any side effects.

With the Viagra I had only Red Eyes as a side effect, it has worked very well the few times I have taken it.

They're only a supplementation and not for long term use, because they're medicine. I found to try them it's not so bad.

That's the best advise I can give you.

Answer 5

There isnt that much you can do, a man knows how long it is going to be before he comes way before you do ! He just needs to be more generous rather than only dealing with his own pleasure.

Try to make him go slower, make out your enjoying it though.
Also when he notices the pressure build up he could use his tounge instead, Or pleasure you with toys in between him climaxing.

Good luck ! Let me know if that helps. Ben

Answer 6

when you are having sex tell him to make it last. When he starts nearing climax (which is easy to tell) make him stop and give you some more attention, then when he has calmed down a bit carry on. Other than that he needs to learn control.

Apparently, the muscle they use to stop weeing will also make them stop coming (in the way that our pelvic floor muscle is beneficial to us) So you need to get him to keep stopping and starting when weeing which will strengthen this muscle. Maybe you could drop that into conversation some how lol!!!

Answer 7

I've found viagra very helpful for doing so. It's pretty easy to get online without a prescription to I found Trustworthypills.com reliable. Good luck.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Your guy needs a little more self control. Those numbing gels and creams do tend to desensitize you but it also takes all the pleasure out of the experience. The solution is two fold but you don't necessarily have to do them both at the same time. The first one is to be more giving in bed (BOTH of you). Obviously whenever a guy has sex there is no question as to whether or not he's going to finish. For women it's not always that easy. So during sex rather than both of you grinding along trying to get to your respective happy places mix things up. On one night spend time focused on pleasing him, it can be fun and just as arousing for both people. On another night have the focus on you, entirely on you. If his sole focus is on giving you pleasure rather than just having sex then chances are, and with enough practice you'll begin to start having better sexual experiences. Also it's good conditioning for him to learn patience and self control, which is the second thing I was going to say. sex feels good, really really good, and if a guy isn't careful all that good feeling brings a fast end to the evening whether he wants it to or not. teach him to take his time and focus on the moment rather than the sensations and eventually he'll no longer be a two pump chump
Most woman remember their boyfriends as having lasted longer when the relationships started but they don't understand why it seems to go away. The answer is when most sexual relationships start, they start slowly. We take our time, we tickle, we tease, and basically take four play to the level it should be to get a girl reved up. But people get lazy in relationships and don't try as hard after awhile skipping four play and going straight to the sex. So yeah sex doesn't last as long because you skipped half of it, and yeah the girls don't get theirs because they never got the chance to "warm up" first.

Answer 10

one thing he can do is masturbate about a half hour before you two are going to have sex.

also, you two and he can practice himslef when masturbating, the stop and go method...when he starts to feel te urge that he will ejaculate he should pull out nad stop and regroup and then when the urge goes away, you start again...do this like 4 times ad it should work but it can take time, which is why I say for not only you to to practice it in bed but for him to practice this control method by himself.

also is a perfect time to for him to spend some time w/ oral on you as he is "recooperating".

also, if this is a curret occurance that didnt happen before you can always have him checked out at the doctor to mae sure he is 100% healthy and nothing is wrong

hope that helps. good luck.

Answer 11

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