I don't know why I am so frustrated, maybe PMS. I don't know. I'm at work and my boyfriend is sitting right next to me and is driving me crazy. I don't know why but he just seems very shady today. Getting calls, texts, emails...all of this and I don't know what's going on over there. Now he says that he doesn't want to go to lunch from me so he can catch up on work but will go to lunch when I come back. I know he isn't cheating on me but I just woud like to know what is going on. He just seems crazy today or maybe it is me imagining things. I just need to calm down. Can anyone help me calm down???
2007-11-02 05:11:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bad scene, you should never date co-workers.
I know this breathing excersise that has been taught to people under a lot of stress, but you should just be straight up and ask your bf what the f*#@ is up. Get to the bottom of the problem first.
2007-11-02 05:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go sit in the bathroom and count backwards from 100 and take a deep breath. This sounds a little like PMS or the result of a long work week. Just relax, it's Friday for God's sake.
Regards,
Brandon
2007-11-02 05:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he's watching you type this question in, and wondering "Who's she emailing on that computer?" "What's she up to? Is she talking to someone else? Who's on the phone with her right now? I'll bet its some guy! FIt, I ain't even going to lunch with her-who does she think she is? What is going on over there?"
Focus on getting your work done, your employer pays you to work-not spy on your boyfriend. Besides, if you know he's not cheating on you, what are the other risks/options? Is he a drug dealer? Is he an arms dealer? Maybe he's a stock trader on the side?
Lighten up.
2007-11-02 05:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deep breathes & positive thinking..
There are so many things to look forward to in life.. seeing friends/family booking a holiday or short break away careers marriage starting families or just watching your favourite film or listening to your favourite song.. remember you are an individual with as much rights as anyone else so go out and enjoy life and talk to whoever is bothering you.. that way you can make decisions about will they be in your future and are they worth bothering about.. smile :)
x
2007-11-02 05:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Juzzy [[&]] Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he isn't cheating? Are you just assuming that he doesn't have any time to cheat, bc you guys are always together? But to answer your question, you may be over reacting or you may be telling yourself that because you don't want to address the other issues head on.
2007-11-02 05:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>relax and do the breathing exercise so you can manage to think right.
>everything is normal , the way you see things rigth now maybe you are too tired of routine so you think negatively.
>PMS is one factor so you acting that way...
>evaluate your self and your bf....ask him if he notice somethings
>maybe you need to listen rather do the talking...observe than checking...
>maybe you need to be alone with yourself....
2007-11-02 05:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to date someone you work with. It's hard being together all the time. Try to leyt hime have some to himself, and don't forget to get your own work done.
2007-11-02 05:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you work with your boyfriend..no wonder sounds like you 2 need a little space..also tell him to have respect for you while working..you are at a buisness not a playground..thats if he loves you
2007-11-02 05:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by eeeeee012004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a Zanex
2007-11-02 05:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by cooter726 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break to clear your head...later, away form the work situation, ask him wassup!
2007-11-02 05:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋