I am kind. I am understanding. But in terms in socializing with other people im ashamed, i feel shy. in short word i have no self confident.
2007-11-02 01:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have long had a similar problem. We apparently share what is known as "social phobia." There are some very effective medicines for this problem. But you will need to see a psychiatrist to get these medicines prescribed for you.
There is also a type of treatment known as "Cognitive Behavioral Therapy," which has been found to be extremely effective for social phobia. You can search the Internet to read about this method. You should see a psychologist or psychiatrist to help you learn this method of treatment.
Don't be ashamed of having social phobia (which is also oftentimes called "social anxiety"). A pharmacist friend of mine has informed me that a remarkable number of entertainers take various anti-anxiety medicines, apparently to help them with stage fright, socializing, etc. So you do have plenty of company.
By the way, your apparent social phobia might make it hard for you to go out to get help. But don't worry because mental health professionals are very easy to talk to.
Also, you might want to keep the following quote in mind:
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
--Bertrand Russell
2007-11-02 01:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Joe L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep answering these questions and start to give some funny answers, the thoughts will develop with time and you will start to have fun. To you none of us are real so you need not be shy, and then when you are used to becoming a bit witty, and serious at times ,you should be able to carry it out into the big wide world.
2007-11-02 01:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by supergran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHoever said read How to Win Friends and Influence People is right. Also try to just have a good friendship with one or two people at first. it is not so hard. Try to get involved with something like a church group or club that has people from your school.
2007-11-02 03:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
2007-11-02 01:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every day that passes you develop. But a good way of speeding up thing is to learn. Not only from books, but also to get outthere in nowhere and learn by experience.
2007-11-02 01:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have friends talk to them and don't feel shy your
personality will come to u ok u just can't reach in side a box and pick one u have to let it come to u on its on time
2007-11-02 01:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Summer L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 14:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose your life so that you may gain your LIFE. Personality is the "false" you!
2007-11-02 02:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the good deeds
2007-11-02 01:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we're on the same boat. *sigh*
2007-11-02 01:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♪♥ ginger spice ♥♪ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋