I'm not trying to be a smart *** I'm just curious. I would think being bisexual is a choice but then what if it isn't? What if bisexual people can really never commit to one sex, doesn't that make their lives even more complicated than if they were simply gay or heterosexual?
2007-11-01 20:36:28 · 17 answers · asked by ? 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you can be born bisexual. I don't really see how it makes life more complicated. You just date people you are attracted to, that's all. If you love them, you should be fully satisfied with them in every way and not feel the need to be with someone else.
2007-11-01 20:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Pico 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are not really a sexual being when you are born are you?
I like a solid martini. It's not something that I had a preference for when born but it is something I have a preference for at the moment. It's not my fault that I enjoy the flavour of a martini. I don't drink much alcohol though.. and I'm not addicted to it.
Now... humans are innately sexual beings. So multiply that martini concept to proportions that relate to an adult male.... an addiction to love.
I agree with you to a limited extent. I think being a bisexual person is very complicated, but it doesn't mean that you cannot commit to one sex. Bisexual people, gay people and heterosexual people can commit to one partner... the one that they are addicted to.
Mind you, I think there is far too much emphasis on monogamy in modern society.
2007-11-01 21:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can be born bisexual. I have known that I like both boys and girls ever since the first grade. I had a crush on a little boy, and a little girl in the same year.
You do not have to commit to one sex, continue liking both. But that does not stop you from committing to a PERSON. Be it male, or female. Being bisexual is not just about sex. I have been in love with both genders.
It was never a choice for me, and I tried very hard to not be bisexual. I hurt my self, literally, trying. I was punishing my self, trying to bleed liking girls out of me. It didn't work. I had a very rough time before I finally accepted my self.
And no, it does not make life more difficult. My life is perfectly fine. I've been with both genders, and I am currently engaged to a man I love and want to be with forever. To most bisexuals, love has no gender boundaries. Love who you love, Male, or Female.
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I am not confused, never was. I was never raped, abused, molested, or in a particularly bad situation. I am not gay and fighting it. I am not straight and doing it for attention. I am a grown woman past such silly games.
2007-11-01 21:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ayana 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not can you, but I think one Must be. An Alpha male born into a dog pack will not stay to "share" a new pack with another alpha male. The somewhat diminished, (diminished at conception) litter mates and relatives provide the make-up for the rest of the pack. Like-wise for the female group in the pack.
In human life I observe at least three distinct forms of the female bi-sexual and two of the male. I am looking to see more types. ALSO, as the types show great moderation in form and relative distribution as one looks from race to race.
Last on this: The topic of "Experimentation": There Are sets of straight males and sets of straight females who never want to do this or even think/phantasize about it.
The problem in all of this is the strong tendency in All people to maintain that many more or all of the rest of the people in the world match or share things in themselves.
This causes a perceptual distortion where-in when we critically investigate we 'select' who we study and dampen our observational attention when we glance upon evidence that doesn't fit our desired investigational result.
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2007-11-02 04:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
appears like countless question on right here deals with are gays born that way and if so why yet in all honesty its a fashion of existence decision that one makes in existence and in the event that they're thoroughly happy then the alternative became a favorable one. i did no longer comprehend my gay emotions until eventually i became a minimum of 13/14 and it took me years yet to return to words with it and it extremely is not something to take probably. Being gay and Being bisexual are very distinctive in nature one one had they might seem a similar ingredient yet they do no longer seem to be. some use the term "bi" as a transition area for dealing with thier very own sexual identity whilst others are only bodily attracted the two to the two genders, no longer liking one over the different. I used it as a transition area and it labored out high quality yet I wasn't born to stay this way it form of only dawns on you, in a fashion. Fetishes are Fetishes and that they have got not got any sexual emotions and so we are no longer born to stay the existence we woven.
2016-09-28 04:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual simply means that one is capable of attraction to either sex.
It does not automatically imply that the person is incapable of committing to one person in a monogamous relationship.
All people are capable of love and commitment.
2007-11-01 22:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think so thats why athletes can change sex -its not phusical looks but sometimes they are born with mixed genes.
Its obvious really I think any species which have million in the group will have genetic differences- eg not all exact male not all exact female genes.
Thats why (but not all) we have so many transgendered people physically they look male /female but some of their genes are opposite to what they should be
2007-11-01 20:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since your sexual orientation (your sexual preferences) is determined before birth, yes, you're born bisexual. It's something natural, so the people who say its a choice are actually wrong. Hope it helps :)
-Kiefer
2007-11-01 20:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kiefer H 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are BORN with a sexuality, i think its something you develop that has a lot to do with who you are attracted to, whose company you enjoy and sometimes, it can just be a confused stage of adolescence. Its as much an environmental thing as it is genetic.
So I don't believe that you choose your sexuality.
2007-11-01 21:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a confusion, something happens when you are a little and in your mind you become confuse or you are gay and you are fighting it. Though being Bi helps open the playing field to finding a mate =)
2007-11-01 21:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Chalise 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋