I go to a top art college in nyc, i made some good friends, they all come from upper middle class backgrounds. One friend has an apartment in the city her parents pay for, i went to her parents home in upstate NY , they have a boat, nice 3 story house, cars, nice decor, etc.. all my friends are like this now..
Im really ashamed to invite them to where i live, but i know their prob wondering why i havent. I live in a poor area, in a rent controlled walk up, people blast music all night, play dominos in the street, have housing projects, thugs, etc. I have baby furniture still in my room, my mom is too poor to buy anything else.
i am white btw.
I just cant bear to invite them. I feel they will think less of me, be turned off, make fun of me, feel bad for me, etc
i told one girl i live with my Mom so you dont want to come over its boring...
I invited my ex over who came from a nice area, he was shocked, he told me he cant beleive someone like me lives in an area like this.
2007-11-01
20:06:53
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he told me its dangerous, then offered to buy me furniture. was embrassing.
So how does someone like me handle this? being ashamed of where you live
I have a work study job that pays for my tranportation, art supplies, daily money.
i dont make enough to move, i have 20 credits- hard art classes
2007-11-01
20:09:26 ·
update #1
im also afraid of someone in the area harrasing them, most of my friends from HS who visited me here were threatened, sexually harrased, etc
2007-11-01
20:12:53 ·
update #2