my wife is straight and always has been. she has had some encounters with two of her girlfriends while in high school. we have been married for 3 years now and life is great and everythign is fine. but we were re-enacting a movie we were watching when 2 girls were tag teaming 1 guy and she said she thought that it might be fun. i agreed we went on and i played it off as a heat of the moment type thing until we were out in the store (not a bar no alcohol involved) when she leans over to me saying it would be awsome to see this woman looking at clothes please me or for them both to please me. once again i agreed but blew it off. 4 years ago i would have walked up to her and asked if she would like to join us but being married i know not to get trapped by trick questions but these seem different. is she trying to tell me something? is she bi? if so, now what?
2007-11-01 18:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by yay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wouldnt mind it. and im not worried about her leaving me. the thing thats gets me is and maybe i worded the question all wrong but she wanted to watch this women please me or for both of them to please me. it wasnt i oral sex from a woman or to preform it on another woman. everythign she has said is about just me and the other woman or both of them on me. i have heard of spouses having fetishes along these lines. could this also be playing a role in her statements?
2007-11-01 19:41:13 · update #1
Dude, if you mean "is your wife playing head games with you, trying to lead you into some kind of trap, then you obviously don't need that"
The only way to find out is tell her you'd want nothing more than for her to get turned on by you doing two women. It sounds to me like that's what she wants. Just make sure she isn't going to get jealous when you're stuffing some other gal's mouth full.
You lucky SOB. Go on take the money and run!
2007-11-01 20:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by lovinglifeina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy r u lucky a 3 some or 4 some and u in the middle
2007-11-01 19:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a test but let your wife know if she wants to invite another woman to bed it will be fine with you.But ALWAYS let her pick the women.If she is your life just got alot better.My ex-wife was bi-sexual and life was wonderful! Until she started sleeping with all the guys in our county!Then not so much fun.Good luck
2007-11-01 19:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend .. Women are rare species and very very difficult to understand .. they are so fuc$% up !! so dont waist your time trying to figure out what is in her head ... 80% of women in the US has dreamed on having sex with another woman or already had the experience ... they are freaks !!!
So sit back and enjoy the ride and if you are on for doble dipping .. men you are a lucky SOB
2007-11-05 17:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit her down and talk to her- ignore all the college babies hollering 3some. Those things never go well. Most people do have some small attraction to their same gender, but just like with the opposite gender, its kinda wrong if you act upon it.
2007-11-01 19:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may just be fantasizing just to keep the excitement up. I would not suggest a 3some because it usually causes insecurities and other problems after the fact. I have seen it happen too many times.
2007-11-01 19:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just come out and ask your wife if she would like a threesome. She should pick out the woman, aprroach her and ask her to join the two of you. You are one lucky guy.
2007-11-02 01:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint! She wants a 3some so give it a try. Make sure you both understand the consquences of your actions.
2007-11-01 19:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by n.s. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not that she bi, but just interested in seeing your reaction to her questions. Or, maybe she's interested in experimenting after watching the movie and feeling bold. If you're also into it, fine, if not say so to her. I think tho you need to ask her more questions first.
2007-11-01 19:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she is. what is the worst she will say? if your not cool with it tell her if you are and she is too then explore more if you arent then tell her, whats the worst thing that will happen?
2007-11-01 19:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by David B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋