Hi, what are the chances of a marriage to work out when the guy had divorce twice by now and had children with his 2 ex wives. My cousin is suppose to marry a guy like that and we are only hoping it can work out.
2007-11-01 18:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is Love. I have been divorced once. My fiance of 11 years has been married twice. I have 2 from my marriages and he has one with each.
That little piece of paper is harder to get out of than in...If you truly love each other..Have a ceremony for yourselves or save the money and buy each other nice gifts...Because in the end you should still love each other without that piece of paper.
But we have been together 5 years longer than both of his marriage's. And it is not because we don't want to. But we think as each other as best friends as well as lovers.. It is easier to loose a friend than to battle with an ex- husband.
2007-11-01 18:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by f3196f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on them. She is going to have to deal with two ex-wives because of the children but it doesn't mean that it has to be bad. I was married 2 times before I married my 3rd husband. I have two sons from my first marriage and a daughter from my second. But I have a decent relationship with both my ex's and so does my husband. It makes things a lot easier when everyone involved can get along.
2007-11-01 18:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by wildeyes_heart_of_stone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it all depends on what he has learned from those relationships and if he had taken out the time to actually deal with the problems he faced. With having 2 divorces under his belt, chances are he has issues that are his too, not just the exs ( which he probably claimed were "crazy"...lol). As long as he has worked on himself, I think things could work. If not, all his baggage will come creeping in before too long and it will be round 3.
2007-11-01 18:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds are most likely, not good. There is reasons why his first two marriages didn't work out. There is baggage from both the marriages. Best think about marrying someone who is single and has had no previous.
2007-11-01 18:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he has had a religious experience or something, doesn't sound really good. Plus the problems with all the kids are going to be fun, if he sees and supports them. If he don't see/support them, then there is another sign that he is a loser.
But the more you say bad against him, the more she probably will turn to him and you will have allienated her. It is her decision and all you can do is love her and support her. I'm afraid she is going to need alot of both.
2007-11-01 18:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to find a nice guy with no kids and who hasn't already gone through two marriages, she will thank herself later. The less baggage the better (of course I have baggage, but then again I am married).
2007-11-01 18:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by scsspace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One wonders if the wives left him, or if he abandoned them? Either way, #1- odds are he won't change and #2 IF he is paying child support to 2 ex-wives -how will he afford to support his new wife?
#3 If he is NOT paying child support, what kind of dad could he possibly be, and how could he be depended on if he doesn't honor his obligations?
2007-11-01 18:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way I can see of finding the right answer is to ask the two ex's why and what were their problems to cause the divorce. then she will then know what to watch out for. for example- if he was cheating, drinking or what ever. but if both of the ex's answer were of the same problem. watch out, for it could happen again.
2007-11-05 17:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already a two-time loser...let's hope he doesn't go for the hat trick.
Every broken home represents massive failure on the part of the parents, especially when kids are involved. His inability to work things out with his spouses doesn't bode well for his future.
2007-11-01 18:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by johnny_100pesos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that guy may change after marriage because his children's are there no.
2007-11-01 18:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by mani r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋