Should you love your mom or your wife more?????????/?

Question

In my opinion you should always love your mom more then your wife. I am 19 single and dont plan on ever getting married, but if some day I do she will come second to my mom and sister. I just answered a question about a mommas boy and he was definitely one, but just cuz you love ur mom more then a wife doesn't mean ur a moms boy. I love my mom more then anything, but I am not a mommas boy. I am very protective of my sister and mother and if you even look wrong at them ur gonna be on the pavement. haha my sister is 22 and has barely had any boyfriends cuz I tend to run them off, its kind of wrong but I do it for the right reasons. They will always come before anyone else. Who do you think should come first?????

I guess maybe you can say that if you had a bad mother you could love some one more, but I had a good mother and she gave me life and has always been there and would do anything for me and I will never be able to say that about anyone but her and I will never love anyone more

sorry we might think of mommas boys differently but to me a mommas boy is some one who is a wuss and always runs to there mommy when they have problems, thats not me. I am one tough boxer and deal with my problems on my own my mom has enough to deal with and I can handle **** on my own

O damn phoenix I dont get one of those cards **** they r really shinny to ****. What if I was to steal yours you only get issued one sucks for you, dont try to get it back either cuz I also have a card issued by knocking many ****** out in the ring, so it is pointless to try and get it back hahah you r ******* funny

o the police r coming damn popo can speak to my super X2 getting a super X3 soon so then that

Answer 1

You love them both, but in different ways.

Answer 2

That is a very immature question. When you grow up and become a man your relationship w/ your mom will change. You will have an adult/adult relationship. You will still love her the same, but there are parts of your life that will seperate from her. It is a natural and healthy part of becoming an adult. If you are 32 and your mother is still wiping down your hair with her spit, and you don't mind, then you are a mama's boy. You will not be very attractive to women. If you do grow up enough to attract a woman and she becomes your wife, you may want to examine your relationship with your mom. As for your sister, it is not funny that you are so controlling with her. She is a grown woman and is probably quite responsible about chosing the men she dates. If she were 17 it would make sense that you are protective, but it's kind of creepy that you are still running off her potential boyfriends. And yes, if you have a wife, she should always come first. Putting your mom and sister 2nd is not showing them disrespect. It is just what happens when you grow up and get married.

Answer 3

Obviously you are not ready for marriage. Marriage is sacred. It turns two into one. Our job as a parent is to raise our children as decent human beings and to let go of them so that they can go out into the world and lead good productive lives. As a mother of 6, 4 of which are boys, I would want them to love their wives above all as this is the greatest example of love that they can teach their own children. They marry their wives for better and worse til death do them part. They are not mine to keep. They belong to their wives. I love my sons with all my heart but I belong to my husband because he is my other half just as they belong to their wives.

I know that my sons don't tell me everything, but I hope that they have no secrets from the wives. They share their lives with them totally and completely. I firmly believe that their marriages come before all including me and their kids.

I guarantee you that if you place your wife second to ANYONE, it isn't going to last very long. The wife is and should always be number one!

When my husband was transfered over 400 miles away, I left everything and eveyone behind. We moved along with our 6 children (they were small at the time). You see, my husband was first. And incidently, I have 4 brothers and am the only girl. I was the epitomy of daddy's little girl yet my husband came first and still does although I love my daddy to death.

Answer 4

Then don't get married. Ever. It doesn't sound like we have to worry- you see all those guys you ran off from your sister, they have female siblings. Who network. And make sure genderless piles of slime like you NEVER touch anything female that doesn't involve Elliott Stabler running you down and curb stomping you. Your right though- your not a momma's boy. You're a pathetic little mama's boy and your are to be denied a man card. Stay away from all women including your sister, forever. The police are on their way, and the council has spoken.

Answer 5

You can love your parent more, i mean theres a special bond between a child and a parent usually.. I can honestly say i love my father more then any other man on the face of the earth and i am married.. BUT with that said, when u get married, your responsibility, your devotion is suppose to be to your wife and children, they become your immediate family and your mother and sister become your extended family at that point. Doesnt mean that u have to stop loving your mom, doesnt mean u have to love your wife more then your mom, but it does mean that u need to put your wife first , but if your mom is as good as you say she is, which i imagine she must be a great mom to have a son that is so devoted to her, then she will know this is what you have to do when you get married and respect that and if you pick the right girl, neither ur mom or your wife should ever put u in a position where u'd have to pick and choose between them. And remember, you are talking two different types of love.. one is "family" the other is "romantic" so its ok to love your mom more then any one family wise and love your wife more then anyone in a romantic relationship wise.

Answer 6

your wife,
and you are a momma's boy
you will fail in a marriage should you keep that attitude.
as once you leave the "nest"
your time and devotion belong to your new family
and that means your wife and kids.
you may be protective of your mom and sister
but who isn't
but they do not need your protection
and your insecurity with the opposite sex
they are grown women and you are acting like a child
give them the respect that they deserve
they can take care of themselves and can date and see whom ever
you on the other hand got a little growing to do
just because you are "tough" boxer doesn't mean jack
you still are insecure and a momma's boy
you seen one to many Rocky movies haven't you?

Answer 7

hopefully you won't have to be put in the position that you would have to pick one love over the other, you should love them both with in the boundaries of the relationship, don't ever ditch your mother or sister but don't let them interfere in your marriage, this is not always an easy balance when one side is pressuring you to choose a side or gives you an ultimatum. Be strong I have a feeling your relationships will be tested.

Answer 8

there is a difference. You have to know where to draw the line. I married a man who loves him mother very much. He talks to her almost everyday. But when he married me he told me I will always come first. That is the way it should be. You can still love and respect your mother and have the love of your life at the same time.

Answer 9

i think its a different kind of love for each, but if it were to be a mom vs wife thing were you had to choose, it would have to be wife.
think about it, your wife is someone who you choose to have in your life(as oposed to being assigned parents, you had no choice in them being your parents), and start a family with. Once you have an established relationship and home and family of your own, your parents come second to your wife and children, because its your turn to be a parent and husband. Once your kids grow up, they too will choose someone over you, and its not that they love you less, but that is how life progresses.

Answer 10

you are talking about 2 different "love" you love your mom differently then how you would love your wife (romantic love). i dont think one interfers with the other.
being overprotective of your sister is good. now a days anything is possible...its good that you care about her and keep an eye on her.

Answer 11

LIL BOY, you better stay w/mommie!!! Your wife will come 1st, then mother,then sisters!! You are far to young to even think about a woman!!!!