In class our professor divided students into groups picked by students. every group has at least 5-7 members in it but my group has only me, a girl, and an asian guy. it's going to be a group presentation. Our topic is extremely difficult because i came in late the day the topics were assigned so all the good topics were picked and i got stuck with the crappy topic. ( STUPID TRANSIT SYSTEM) so the asian guy is cool but the girl is a *********. i can't work with her she gives me attitude for everything i say and she keeps rolling her eyes. and i know what it means. it's like a "can you believe this guy?" look. she tries to also be bossy towards us. i would love to get out of the group i think i'll have a problem working with her. she has a real attitude problem, what do i do? how do i get around her attitude if it's too late to change groups?
2007-11-01 16:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
when i introduced myself to her she said "yea whatever" and just turned her head. she did the same to the asian guy. usually when you meet someone for first time you act nice right?
2007-11-01 16:46:43 · update #1
NO, wait the groups weren't picked by studetns, i meant to say the TOPICS were. by the time i showed up all the good topics were taken so i got stuck with the group with the mean girl
2007-11-01 16:47:29 · update #2
honesty is always the best policy.
you have her sit down and you say....
"Look I didn't pick you for our group and you didn't pick me. I don't like you and you obviously don't like me but we can either make the best of it with out your dramatics or you can do the whold dammm thing all by yourself because I am not one of those people who thinks your theatrics is cute. The choice is yours--do we work together as a team or do you do all the sh*t by yourself?"
2007-11-01 16:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Moma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back in my school days,in situations like this,I would just ignore people who acted this way.Everyone would talk like they weren't there,and would make decisions without consulting them.They would either get the hint and act like a human or would just be shut out.It was very effective.
I hope this helps.
2007-11-01 23:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple tell her this: look i dont like you and i dont care if you like me because the way you are acting is bitchy but we have to work together to get this done! either suck it up and work with us or quit, either way its your choice!
then go talk to the teacher that she isnt coraperating with any of your attemps, and if she is not doing anything tell the teacher, sometimes its good to rat people out but not always!!!
BUT BY ALL MEANS DONT TRY TO GIVE HER A GOOD GRADE WITHOUT SOME WORK FROM HER TO HELP YOU TWO!!!!
2007-11-01 23:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sorika 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her only when you must, i would just talk to the asian guy and she will jump in whenever she feels that she needs to give her inputs in group discussions.
i hate those kind of people. while it wouldnt help to be rude to her, i wouldn't be nice to her neither. i would just be emotionless when communicating with her.
2007-11-02 07:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she's mean! tell her to change her attitude because you will kick her out. shes a b****! and she's also acting like a racist to that asian guy. she's obviously a dumba** and doesnt wanna learn anything, so why waste her parents' money?
2007-11-01 23:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by aDORKable<3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you think she's a total b*tch. that's one thing i'm good at -- i tell it like it is. i have no problem tearing anyone a new @rsehole if i think they're asking for it. ask the other guy if he thinks she's a tw@t as well and if he does, you're safe to give her what for.
2007-11-01 23:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Capt Blackie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot them
2007-11-01 23:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by 2bit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋