Three weeks ago, I was voted as coffeemaker at a 12-step meeting. for the past couple of weeks, the secretary had not given me a key for the locker where the supplies are. He had kept telling me, "Next week", for three weeks now, so I told him I was tired of hearing this and didn't want to make the coffee as long as I didn't have a key. How could I get to the supplies? The key did not belong to him; he was supposed to hand it over to the next coffeemaker.
Am I being too hard on him, or was I right to stand up for myself?
J.
2007-11-01 15:25:13 · 10 answers · asked by billi_leli 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No,you did well! After all,how hard is it to hand over a key?
Let him make the d*mn coffee if he's going to be like that.
2007-11-01 15:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not too hard on him and yes you were quite right to stand up for yourself. Have to wonder why he is hanging on to that key!!
2007-11-01 15:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by ozinnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being to hard on him at all. I would have just took the key from him myself.
2007-11-01 15:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is in charge over the secretary? I would voice your complaint to that person, and explain the circumstances to him or her. Of course you had a legitimate reason to stand up for yourself. If you don't , who will?
2007-11-01 15:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he's supposed to hand it over, you did the right thing. You need to stand up for yourself.
2007-11-01 15:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by paranoidandroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me the whole idea of confronting some one is new to you.You dont need my aproval ,What do you think?Keep going back.
2007-11-01 15:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..u have the right to be hard on him of not giving u the keys..next time just spank him back...haha..joking only...
2007-11-01 15:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's his fault. u are doing the right thing.
2007-11-01 15:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by k3lly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why he won't give it to you? No I don't think you were hard on him, you're ok.
2007-11-01 15:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by munkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was a right thing to do i would have done that
2007-11-01 15:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋