I am pretty much nice to everyone. But, I have real friends---a lot. And all my friends are different. But, when I am hanging with the kids that are bad and aren't real smart, my smart friends ignore me. I don't know which group I should stick with since the bad kids are the nicest and love me the most. But, since even I'm the whole principal's honor roll student, I can't totally switch to the bad kids. WHAT DO I DO???? Please help. Thanx.
2007-11-01 14:48:28 · 15 answers · asked by ethio beast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do the "bad" kids ignore you when you hang with your "smart" friends? they sound like better people to me. anyone who would ignore you because of who your friends with is not worth your time.
2007-11-01 14:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i have the same prob in a way exept the smart kids dont ignore me but if you can mix or just hang with the bad kids
2007-11-01 21:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of both groups of kids i would pick the ones that stick with u the most so maybe this will help u choose remember to only pick the ones that are true friends and would stick by u through anything.
2007-11-01 21:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by kathyjo_jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick whatever group you have more FUN with. Trust me I know too. This thing also happend to me. Im friends with people that arent as popular and ARE the most popular. The popular ones (some of them) ignore me. I decided that I can still be friends with the not-as popular ones but can still be friends with some of the really popular ones because they are my friends!
manage to find balance
2007-11-01 21:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with both of them.
You don't have to stop hanging out with a certain group of people.
You learn from both sides and it works in your benefit.
Just make sure you make smart choices when it comes to school.
2007-11-01 21:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with the "bad" kids that you like the best and try to get them to calm down and be "better"
2007-11-01 21:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change yourself or pick sides.
Be friends with both.
If you are an honor roll student don't change just because your bad friends aren't honor roll students.
&&If your other friends ignore you then they are stupid anyways.
Bottom line don't change yourself and just hang out with the people you feel most comfortable with.
=]
2007-11-01 21:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by sk8erinpigtails 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you figuree out why you like bad kids. You say bad kids love you etc. I don't believe that is how it really is. It is how you see it. I know you are young, but try and get real. Search out your heart and figur out what you want and go for it.
2007-11-01 21:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by LDB449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to hang with the bad kids? You know they are bad.
2007-11-01 21:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had some what similar problem. Most of friends were jocks and nerds. Problem was they both pissed me off in one way or another. I managed to find a balance.
2007-11-01 21:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋