his 83 year old friend's father who lived in San Fransisco died so his friend went back all the way from Uk to san fransisco to attend his father's funeral and my bf decided to follow him to be with him since they're good friends. We were supposed to be on halloween night together but instead he took the flight to California and I haven't heard from him since... no calls from him no emails today, nothing!
I don't know what to think but it seems that his friends are more important than his lover. Don't you think? He left everything behind even his important job to be there for him!!!!!!
PS we've been together for 3 years.
2007-11-01 14:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hopefully they're not that close friends.
2007-11-01 14:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by C93 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the circumstances surrounding your relationship. But if his friend's father died maybe he's helping his friend cope with all that that intails. and just hasn't had time to respond to your inquiries.
Not to be a wet blanket, but he may have used that as an excuse to leave the relationship. If that be the case then just blow him off and find someone that really loves you. Don't let this one event change who you are or what it is you need in your life.
"Love Hurts Sometimes." But it will heal and you'll be stronger for it, Honest.
2007-11-01 14:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by bnyxis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are over reacting. He will be back and I'm sure he is helping his friend take care of business there. He is really a true friend indeed that's what a friend really is to be supportive of each other. Only if the death is true. Then if there was not a death,I'm sure he just wanted to move on.Apparently you feel that you can't trust him.
2007-11-01 14:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by MasterPlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accurate, i can not write with my left hand in any respect! yet I do a lot of issues with my left hand, apparently i'm left hand eye co-ordinated. Or accurate, whichever is the different of what accurate handers should be! I open doors, carry luggage and do maximum stuff with my left hand.
2016-10-23 06:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to understand your lover. Maybe, his friend is really close to him and needs comforting now that his/her father died. However, he should call you regularly during his absence...
2007-11-01 15:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by emely a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But maybe they want to be with your friend in stead of you. So go find a new friend and lover. It could be fun. Your free at last.
2007-11-01 14:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by LDB449 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am thinking, be glad he went with a fellow man, instead of a woman, don't be jealous, be thankful!
2007-11-01 14:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by helper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needed someone to be with him in this time of crisis. It's not right, but he's hurting and needs to not be alone.
2007-11-01 14:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by JerZey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't contact you, ditch him. How close is he with his friend. Real real close or just really friends.
2007-11-05 13:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW id say something was wrong u try calling him at all??
2007-11-01 14:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Falcon163 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋