I really like this boy, we'll call him Boy 1. We're really good friends, we talk everyday. Well he really likes me too. But he lives a few cities away, goes to a different school. Since we're too young to drive we never get to see each other.
I sorta like this other boy (Boy 2) and I'm getting huge hints that he likes me. I don't know him THAT well.. I'm not good with getting close to people quickly and I'm not good at being "with" people I'm not close to or completely comfortable with. This guy goes to my school & I also talk to him often.
What should I do? Is it wrong to go out with Boy2 if I still really like Boy1 and talk to him a lot? (Boy2 knows I like Boy1.) But its stupid to stay single just because of Boy1, it's obviously not going to work and waiting isn't going to help anything.. I just need some advice..
2007-11-01 14:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by ghostywingz 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think you should get to know Boy 2 before making any decisions. Don't go out with someone because you're pressured to, or just because the guy likes you. If you like Boy 1 but he doesn't seem to like you back, I think it's fine to go out with Boy 2. If you decide that Boy 2 isn't right for you, then you can just remain friends with both (or go out with Boy1).
2007-11-01 14:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by m.aster 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're a smart girl......I think you answered your own question. You don't need to put your life on hold for "boy1" but that doesn't mean you still can't be friends and talk. Seeing that "boy2" already knows about "boy1" that shouldn't be a problem for him if he really likes you. Good luck!!
2007-11-01 14:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by anyadvice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. I think you should go out with boy2 for now just to have like a boyfriend, but then when you are older you should go with boy1 if you still really like him.
2007-11-01 14:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with boy 2. Boy 1 never has to find out.
Actually, I'm sorta kidding, but I had almost the exact same problem not too long ago.
I met this boy that I really liked, but he lived far away (I met him at church) and then back at my school, I met this sophomore that asked me out. I really liked the sophomore too, so now he's my boyfriend. The guy I met at church and I are really good friends now, but I don't have those feelings anymore.
Then again, we only started going out about maybe two weeks ago. You should start to get to know "boy two" more before jumping to any conclusions.
2007-11-01 14:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by asdfghjkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like Boy 1, you can still let him know you like him. Just because you don't live near each other doesn't mean you can't still be REALLY close friends.
And try to get to know Boy 2 better. He may prove to be a really sweet guy, and if he likes you, it's a lot more reasonable than never getting to see him like with Boy 1.
All in all, just go for who you like more.
Best of luck!
2007-11-01 14:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Bree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that situation before. I'm sorry!
My advice is you get to know "Boy 2" a little better, and if he seems your type, I'd simply talk to "Boy 1" and tell him that you're interested in "Boy 2" for the time being, but you really like him.
I'm very sorry if this wasn't what you were looking for.
Good luck!
2007-11-01 14:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ive been there before but it was 5 boys instead of 2 so ur lucky um i cant make that desion for u u got to make it but if i were u i would go with boy 1 bc u already know him and there are alot of ways to commumicate on the pc by phone by letters maybe go to his town if u got a friend that drives and go see a movie down there and invite him to um i know u really like him and stuff but theres boy 2 who u really dont know that well but yet u get to see him everyday i would go with personally the one that makes u happy when ur with that person and also who makes u laugh and makes u feel good inside and on the out and whoes also respectful to u thats also number one in my area so i wish u luck and let me know who u choose at snowangelweakling@yahoo.com
2007-11-01 14:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by sonia c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say take a risk go with boy 2 and if it doesnt work or u find out u rlly like 1 better go for 1 ur young u can change if u made the wrong decision go with ur heart
2007-11-01 14:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk it over with Boy 1 and be honest with him saying there's this other guy... and if he thinks this relationship has any hope.
2007-11-01 14:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by B&B Haulers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can a girl and guy just be friends?
2016-07-08 13:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by Buffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋