because they hurt you or worse .......
have you ever forgiven them ........
could you .......
would you .........
is it time to let that negitive energy go .........
and move onward with your life .........
2007-11-01 13:46:48 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
* I will be perfectly honest I don't have anyone I hate*
2007-11-01 14:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they hurt you or worse ....... yes
have you ever forgiven them .......yes, but I have hurt other too and it is more difficult to forgive yourself at times.
could you .......
would you .........
is it time to let that negitive energy go .........convert it into something postitive
and move onward with your life .........you can forgive anyone for any err they have done however it doesn't mean that you have to have any association with that person again, unless you want to. It means you can let it go but not give them license to do it to you again.
When you make a choice to forgive someone, it's setting yourself free of ill harbored feelings. It's not something that comes natural, you have to keep practicing it and no one said it was easy.
Bad emotions are the root cause of many physical ailments
2007-11-01 14:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word to me; it hold such a strong meaning. I dont think that I have ever hated anyone. I might have felt like it at the time, but hating someone only makes a person bitter, and I didnt want to be that person. I mean I have disliked many of people in my life, but not hate them. I forgive them, and get the weight off my shoulders, but I will never forget.
2007-11-02 07:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and no I haven't forgiven them, they never asked for forgiveness, but I have moved on and I think sometimes It's best not to dwell on the past, I don't harbour hate inside me cos It's only gonna bring me dowm and cause me ill health. So I just let it be and don't think about them or what they did. I don't think I would want that person(s) in my life ever again though.
2007-11-01 13:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. I used to be a big hater. Hated me. Hated every member of my family.. hate hate hate. Just about destroyed me. Hate feels bad for a reason.. because it is the worst possible emotion and the source of everything bad for your body and your soul. Hate is a cancer, killing from the inside out, and maybe some other folks with you. It is so much better to give in to love. And I'm not perfect... it creeps in frequently, but I recognize it most of the time now and get rid of it instead of carrying it around. I'm still having a problem with GWB and Bin Laden. But I just try to not think about those two and I do better.
2007-11-01 13:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by CB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. It is not because of what they did to hurt me, but what they did to hurt those I love.
I could never truly forgive them because the harm they did can never be undone. Lives have been ruined and that will not change, so I do not believe they deserve it.
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Having said that, I do believe most things can be forgiven and you can move on with your life, but there are some things (murder, rape, etc) that I personally cannot forgive.
2007-11-01 13:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by O Great One 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are a few people that I dislike(I stay away from them) and really only one person I HATE. That would be my ex-husband. He did too many things to me for me to ever forgive him. The worst thing was when he stood on my front porch and told our ten year old son that he didn't want anything more to do with him. He said his new wife didn't like our son and he was not to ever contact him again. I saw the look on my sons face and it broke my heart.~How can someone do that to a child? My son worshiped his dad, they did a lot of things together before the new wife came into the picture.~
I'm done b*tching about it!~~ Sorry!!!!
2007-11-01 14:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by BABSIE H 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did ...A lesson well learned, because of that whole ordeal it taught me how hate was a very powerful word that I don't use anymore...I have forgiven it took quite sometime..I guess til the lesson was learned but honestly if you don't learn of the power that hate has it could kill you...It's a horrible thing...easier to live without it... If you learn to not hate I believe it makes you a way smarter person...and it removes a huge weight that none of us need to carry...Life is good... :)
2007-11-01 13:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Trix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've forgiven, although not always forgotten. You obviously are learning some really good issues about life and who to turn to when it gets to be too much.
Peace Brother
2007-11-01 13:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have truly hated someone when I confided in them that I was gay, and they told everyone. Anyone who has really hated someone knows how it feels- its cold hate, you can't even speak.
I have forgiven her, just to let go and move forward. She regrets it, and that's enough.
I hated her for the longest time though- especially when I got my house egged, when I got into fights at school, etc...
2007-11-01 13:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by James 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did. And I realized what a negative force it was in my life and went for counseling to deal with it. When you're feeling it, it's hard to believe it, but the negativeness hurts YOU not the person you feel hatred towards.
2007-11-01 13:51:20 · answer #11 · answered by Sport 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋