Or would that make me gay with straight tendencies?
I'm so confused.. lol.
2007-11-01 13:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm just not that fond of labels... :)
2007-11-01 13:42:03 · update #1
Sexuality is not an absolute, but a continuum. Most of us are not one extreme or another. We are either to the right or left of a sliding scale. We choose our own labels.
2007-11-01 13:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your sexuality is not cut or dried - no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay since to be 100% implies perfection and we all know there isn't a human on this earth who is perfect. So, bottom line is you could be anywhere from 99% one way and 1% the other or vice versa. In simple terms feel free to be 40% gay and 60% straight or any other combo you want to be as long as it adds to 100 (heck even if we are not perfect we can at least do our arithmetic right).
Anyway, date whomever you like if they like you and as a relationship develops with someone then work to make it great. Don't let their gender or yours be an issue. Love, trust, uinderstanding and mutual caring are way more important than who has what genitals.
2007-11-01 13:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most bisexuals are attracted more to one sex than than the other. Rarely is there a 50:50 attraction for both males and females. It's bisexuality not equisexuality.
2007-11-01 13:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused, just be you! If you hate labels, than don't give yourself one- How bout you are interested in and attracted to certain people because of who they are and their gender does not put a boundary on the attraction.
2007-11-01 17:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats the meaning of bi to like one sex and the other why put gay with straight tendencies ur bi but yea u can like 1 sex more than the other but dats really up to u
2007-11-01 14:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by YaNKee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate labels, too. But, yes, sexuality is a continuum, so it is indeed to be attracted to both genders but be attracted to one more than the other. As the great pansexual Captain Jack Harkness said, "You people and your quaint little categories".
2007-11-01 15:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by your_dear_old_mother 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Being bisexual just means you like both genders, it does not mean you have to like them both evenly. Feel free to be attracted to who you are attracted to.
For instance, I like women more than men. But it is a man I fell in love with, and a man I am with now and hope to be with forever.
(( <3's Mike!))
2007-11-01 14:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ayana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question indeed
I feel you dont need to like both man and woman 50% 50% If you want to go that way I am going to have to say I like woman 60% and women 40%. something like that
2007-11-01 18:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow-- what an excellent question.
Since I am straight, but with many gay/bi/other friends and family members, it give me some cool things to consider...
Thanks, SweetElf, I love to reflect on stuff like this and how I can treat people better...
2007-11-01 16:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
bah just follow your heart... the gender isn't important - the labels are irrelevant
if I was a chick you can be sure I would be gay - how the heck could you think a dirty smelly guy is as nice as a soft squishy woman...
2007-11-01 17:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋