how can i make it better
2007-11-01 13:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Good, that means your normal.
2007-11-01 13:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
the only reason your life is crappy is because you think its that way. It starts with your thoughts and what you think about what you have. Its all about how you see it, more like a chain reaction. lets say, one thing goes wrong so then you zero in on every thing you dont like about everything else. Now you think everything you have is bad and you have nothing good.
But in reality, none of its all that bad. There is always something good goin on you just have to think and find it. i dont know the exact details of your life but i'm sure there is at least ONE thing that is good. It may be small but it there. So find it, hold on for dear life and keep goin.
i hope it helps. good luck!
2007-11-01 13:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by jeepfreak862000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a plan? Know what career you want to pursue? Do you have adequate education to make your dreams and plans come to fruition? If not, then you need to make a plan. Divide a page into vertical thirds. 1: Things I must have to have a good life. 2. Things I want very much in order to feel complete. 3. Things I'd like to have but can do without or wait till later for. Prioritize in the order in which you must act and complete each step in order to make it happen. Set a reasonable time line. Make sure you have enough money put aside or coming in regularly to do the things you need to do. If you don't, you may need to work for awhile and live very frugally so you can save for your future needs. It won't be easy; nothing worthwhile ever is. It's all up to you. If you want a good life, you must lay the foundation before you can expect it to happen.
2007-11-01 13:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who can fix your crappy life. You are the only person who knows why it's so crappy. It's time for a change.
2007-11-01 13:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just don't know how lucky you are! You have a computer, millions don't. You make the choices in your life, so you are making it crappy for yourself. Watch this link, it will open your mind to new possibilities!
2007-11-01 14:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by djdundalk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am too but its partly turning over
i guess it gets better when i change the things that are too old like a school and start over
so i have better friends i usually also need time to myself to cry thing out when no ones there
(journals/diaryies dont help me) i wouldnt sujest it
i always try to have a better atiitude bout stuff
music helps
but basically if you can move and do the opposite of what ur doing now
2007-11-01 13:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by i like saying hi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) be good to the people around you
2) if people around you are bad to you and you can get away from them, do so.
3) read books that make you feel good while you're reading them
4) learn to listen well and be a kind listener to people who need help
5) if you're addicted to something, address the problem through a recovery program
6) spend at least ten minutes a day doing something you love (as long as it brings no one or anything harm)
7) heal someone or something
8) practice daily kind behaviors
2007-11-01 13:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Obvious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, what makes it crappy? your job, your social life etc...?
whatever it is specifically you don't like change....
I think the first and best way to make your life better is to make someone else's better......
2007-11-01 13:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by saraJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 03:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding something that makes you happy, a pet, a hobby, a nice vacation.
2007-11-01 15:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some movies that suite your present mood
attend sporting events like a basketball game
go out and mingle
be your own boss
2007-11-01 13:22:41 · answer #11 · answered by j. h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋