I like guys i have boyfriends i sleep with guys i am sexually attracted to guys and metally attracted to guys. now for the but you've been waiting for, I recently fooled around with a girl at a party and i was really turned on by it. so i fooled around with her again and now i think about her like i would a guy i like.... i'm so confused please help me.
2007-11-01 13:12:05 · 42 answers · asked by style assimilator 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you might be bisexual then and since that counts as gay i think you hit upon the best way to tell..
2007-11-01 13:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
why not relax and enjoy life and all it has to offer. And yes that can include fooling around or sex along with all the other things that make life interesting and pleasurable like walking in the park, swimming in the pond, playing a sport, collecting whatever you like, etc.
And forget trying to figure out what is gay or straight. If you enjoy it then enjoy it. and if another person who likewise enjoys it participates, then that's pretty cool. And when the day comes to marry the perosn you eventually fall for in a big way, then you can compare genitals to see if it is goign to be a gay or straight relationship. In the meantime just so it safely!
2007-11-01 13:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to be inquisitive when you're young, but that doesn't _automatically_ mean you're a lesbian.
If you want to have a simpler life, stick with the opposite sex. If you don't mind having a potentially and quite likely troubled life, give in to these early curiosities completely and you'll set the stage for that kind of a future. I've known a number of gay and lesbian people and trust me, they don't have it easy - none of them would have chosen that lifestyle if they could have had it any other way.
2007-11-01 13:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by HyperDog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you might be bi. Simply put, if you think about a girl the same way you would a guy, than that means you are attracted to girls. And since you are attracted to both males and females equally, then you're bi.
2007-11-01 13:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by midnitexstar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question is not telling if you are or aren't. Humans are in between a fierce dispute for conquer of their hearts and their choice. Like it or not old Bible sheds a light here too. God says in the book of Romans (chapter 1, verse 27) that man with man is a working shame and an error.
"and in like manner also the males having left the natural use of the female, did burn in their longing toward one another; males with males working shame, and the recompense of their error that was fit, in themselves receiving. "
What if you reverse that chapter to woman with woman?
2007-11-01 13:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by triximetric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and try to relax.
We are very quick to place labels on ourselves and each other, especially when it comes to sexuality. The truth is that sexual identity is often fluid. You may find that you're exclusively interested in men at some times, and women at other times. This may be a one time thing. You may be in the early stages of discovering that you're a lesbian, or you may be fully bisexual. Try not to worry too much about the labels, and just trust your feelings.
2007-11-01 13:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confused: I would strongly suggest you discuss it with a doctor You can be AC/DC but this will ultimately cause you more problems than you would believe. Whatever you do go only one way or the other.
2007-11-01 13:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be bisexual since your attracted to her, think about her, and you liked fooling fooling around with her
2007-11-01 13:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by WCR526 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women sometimes experiment, but it doesn't mean you are gay.
It's up to you what you want to do, either way, the answer will come in a short period of time.
Could just be a fluke, you'll find out.
2007-11-01 13:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jim! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you r bisexual but dont feel bad about it just keep it going with guys and see if you like guys better than girls ok to me i like guys but sometimes u hav a feelin for a girl once or twice in your life so give it a shot
2007-11-01 13:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by yumi33vv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you may be bisexual. Don't feel too confused, maybe you just didn't realize it before because you hadn't been in a sexual relationship with a woman.
2007-11-01 13:14:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋