2007-11-01 13:01:33 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I MET MY GIRLFRIEND WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL AROUND 15 YEARS OLD. WE DATED FOR AWHILE AND THEN MOVED IN WITH EACH OTHER WELL ONE NIGHT. SHE WAS OUT WITH HER GIRLFRIENDS AND GOT IN TO A BAD ACCIDENT AND BROKE HER NECK AND BACK SHE WAS ONLY 17 AT THE TIME.SHE WAS LEFT WITH A FUSION FROM L-1 TO T-2 AND IT PUT HER IN A WHEEL CHAIR FOR LIVE.NOW DAMN NEAR 10 YEARS LATER WE ARE MARRIED AND EXPECTING ARE FIRST KID IN AROUND 3 MONTHS. PEOPLE SEE A PERSON IN A WHEELCHAIR AND ONLY SEE THE CHAIR THOUGHS OF YOU THAT SAY NO THAT YOU 'D NEVER DATE A PERSON IN A CHAIR. I FEEL VERY SORRY FOR YOU. I PERSONAL AM MARRIED TO THE GREATEST WOMEN IN THE WORLD AND WOULD HAVE IT NO OTHER WAY.TO ANYONE THAT SAYS NO PEOPLE IN WHEELCHAIRS ARE NO DIFFERENT THEN YOU OR I AND ANYONE WHO THINKS OTHER WISE NEEDS TO PUT THEM SELVES IN A WHEELCHAIR FOR A WEEK AND MAYBE THEY WOULD SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE
2007-11-01 13:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by chsh8280 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think I would, but I might get tired of doing most of the work all the time in bed. That's what a chick I knew once said who dated a guy in a wheelchair... They stayed together for several years (they may still be, I moved away) because they loved eachother and enjoyed eachothers company. And if you find someone like that out of all the jerks out there that are 100% physically able, then who cares if you have to be on top most of the time? ;)
2007-11-01 13:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Azalea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldn't have a problem dating someone I liked if they were in a wheelchair. I think physical appearance is taken way to seriously when dating. Some people wouldn't look twice at someone if they were in a wheelchair.
If they were normal, like mentally, then there's no problem I'd say :). Some people are jerks, yeee that's right all you people above me, grr.
2007-11-01 13:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by it'sKIRA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look just because a person is in a wheelchair doesn't make them less as a person.Yes I would date a person in a wheelchair and if I loved that person I would even marry them.
2007-11-01 13:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I will date someone in a wheelchair! It is not a hindrance, especially when that disabled man will be your lifetime partner! His kindness and willingness to be there for you will really make you feel loved.
Actually, my man is a disabled one and we will get married soon. That is why I am trying to look for a home near my workplace so as to be able to attend to him during my breaktime.
Oh, GOD help the disabled ones!
2007-11-01 13:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date? Yes.
2007-11-01 13:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by 1proudcloud 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was in a wheelchair following surgery years ago and had a date with a woman....
But she stood me up....
2007-11-01 13:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy in a wheelchair, he goes to my school.
I help him a lot during the day.
Other peers won't help him because, well, quite frankly he's a jerk.
If he asked me out I'd probably say no because of his personality.
If he was a better person I would probably date him.
So, yes.
2007-11-01 13:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I date someone, I judge him according to his personality, beliefs, heart and mind, so if he's on a wheelchair, I dont care really.
2007-11-01 13:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Love thy neighbour 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would... If my guy suddenly had to be in a wheelchair I would not think less of him in ANY way...
2007-11-02 07:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋