im really good friends with this gril. weve been best friends for the past 3 years and now were in 9th grade. she used to be kinda fat but now shes normal. the this is that she lost all o her weight by beign bulemic. she told me she was and she said it was bc im skinny ans so are all of our other friends adn were known as 'popular' so she feels a lot of pressure but id want her to make herself throw up. i tell her all the time that she needs help but she dosnt want any. id kinow what to do. what should i do??
2007-11-01 12:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Tell her you're scared for her and that you are going to speak with her parents. Also let her know you care what happens to her.
2007-11-01 13:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by imthepretty1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you that she was bulimic? From experience (I've been bulimic for over 11 years), she most likely wants help. If she didn't, she wouldn't be telling you that she was. Eating disorders are kept secret unless the person wants someone to know unless it's obvious like anorexia. If I had never wanted help, I never would've given away "clues." Anyway, she either secretly wants help or she is telling you to get attention. Her parents should be told. She can die from this disease. You could get some info off the Internet and try to "scare" her (although they can actually happen.....rotting teeth, stomach rupture, death, etc.). Tell her that you love her and are concerned about her health. This may be really hard to do, but if you think that she may be just wanting attention, don't take the bait. After you tell her that you love her and are worried about her and ask her to get help....don't talk about it anymore. If she knows that she's not going to get your sympathy anymore, she may get help on her own. At the end of the day, SHE has to want help. No one can force her, but you don't need to let it control your life either.
2007-11-01 13:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you need to tell her mother and yours. I know your are bound with the friendship code but she could end up in the hospital. You need to let her know that you love her and that you totally don't hate her you just was her to be healthy and happy. Remind her that you have also been pressured but when hard times come you go to her and feel better.
If you do this you can actually save her life.
2007-11-01 13:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by girllygurl5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 23:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by apley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she needs to stop and your scared for her. if she doesnt listen, id go to your mom or dad. they will either tell her parents or help you figure out how to get her help.
2007-11-01 13:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥converse girliee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋