I fell in love with a guy whose caracter was really attractive to me. I told him bout it but he said that he was in love with someother gurl. After awhile he said that he was in love with me also he said that he had forgotten that girl. I wanted to be with him forever and it was possible through marriage but he said many times that falling in love with me didn't mean that he wanted to marry me. I think when a man falls in love, it means that he needs and he wants to be with his beloved girl forever and if not, he is just pretending love. He said that he couldn't marry me because he wanted to continue his education and never accepted me to wait for him. Now i've got married with someother man; and he is still persisting on loving me so that i some times decide to comeback to him but with no hope. I think that if i leave my current marriage, he would say "oh if I said i loved u it didn't mean that i wanted to be with u why did u return to me then?" I don't Know wut kind of love it is!!!
2007-11-01 12:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
These type of people and knows as waving mind, they never stick to their words and it is difficult to trust them and take any decision, It is advisable not to trust that guy who already given u such examples of his love, This about ur future and get more involved with your hubby, End of the day wat matters is Mental Comfort.
Regards
Raj
2007-11-01 12:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are married. You have made a committment. You married without being in love, is that it? If you do love him, then you need to stay married to him.
The other man has lost his chance. He wants what isn't his anymore, because he DIDN'T want you when you were available. Why? Because he thought he had someone BETTER than you. And he will do it again, too, if you leave your husband to be with him. Do not trust this man.
2007-11-01 12:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
First. Use the spell check. Next, love your husband and quit being a selfish little girl. You will reap exactly what you sow in life.
Then accept the fact that that this guy is using you.
Remain true to your vows. One day you will ultimately be judged not on the promises you make, but the promises you keep.
Good luck.
2007-11-01 12:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's the kind of love you need to stay away from, because it's really not love. I'm sure it's some kind of emotion, but not what anyone needs.
Concentrate on your husband and your marriage before you screw that up.
2007-11-01 12:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your husband is not 'some other man', he should be the most important person in your life for whom you would forsake all others.
You don't sound committed to your marriage, throwing it away for this guy will only make things worse.
2007-11-01 12:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
How old are you?
DO NOT leave your marriage for this jerk. You married "someother" man? Jeez - come on - focus on your hubby.
2007-11-01 12:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
It is not love, it is called wanting something you can't have. Stay with your husband and make a life with him, You will be much happier.
Good Luck
2007-11-01 12:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Some people confuse feelings with love. Some others confuse sexual excitement with love.
2007-11-01 12:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by jcolino 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
woman!! OH HEAVENS. this guy said to your face you weren't good enough to commit to. you were not good enough to marry. what more did you need from him? a black eye? a broken nose?
he is not good enough for you. accept it. focus on working on your marriage.
2007-11-01 12:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you stay where you are and tell him he had his chance. say your loss
2007-11-01 12:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋