The guy is 15 and very sweet
2007-11-01 11:53:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesn't matter how sweet and charming the guy is. Sex is a big responsibility. If you get pregnant you'd either have to raise the child yourself (as most teen mothers do) or abort it which is illegal in most countries except in the US which I find very odd.
If you don't want your dreams shattered, don't. It'll be the sweetest mistake of your life.
P.S. Love can wait when you've got the rest of your life established. If you start at such an early age, you won't be able to go bar hopping when you get older.
2007-11-01 11:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Coin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent and a grandfather- We are very open minded about many things except sex. I have 3 daughters and our rule was very simple---If you can go and get your own car insurance and pay for it, you can do pretty much what you want in life. The age for independently being able to purchase your own insurance in our state is 18.
By the way--Girls are influenced by touch and flattery. The more a boy pays attention-teases them and jokes around--the more the girl thinks he likes her. Boys are visually influenced. And it is not by a "nice" face. There is some truth to the following: God gave man a brain and a penis--but only enough blood to operate one at a time. Boys think of NOW---NOT TOMMORROW even they may tell you so. What do you think of? Sex today or the relationship tommorrow?
Dr. Tommy Skelton
2007-11-01 19:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by tskelton155 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are right because by your posting it shows you are not matured enough, you can't have sex with a guy cos he is sweet. What do you know about birth control, are you ready to have a child, can you handle it when he says its all over after having sex with you, can you handle STD's?
As a women you should be empowered with your sexuality, and don't just throw it around like you have no respect for yourself.
Don't just listen to your parents, think for yourself, have you really given this enough thought or you are just bored and carried away?
2007-11-01 19:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have sex until you are friggen married. Sex can mess your life up worse than heroin. Friggin google HPV, tons of girls have this STD, but our perverted society won't talk about it because they intend on having people screw like they are barnyard animals.
First off, do you want a ghetto life living on welfare? Go ahead and pork this guy. Tons of girls are getting prego and are stuck trying to raise a baby while dealing with a dead beat joke of a father who won't show up to birthday parties. It isn't even funny anymore.
Secondly, you want your kid smashed up in a planned parenthood dumpster? Go ahead and pork this guy. Countless girls get abortions because they want to have their cake and eat it too, friggin if you have sex you better be dang well ready to have a baby, or don't do it. Period.
Third, there is no safe sex, if you are just on the pill, you can get STD's, most ****** guys whine and cry about condoms, and most don't put them on.
2007-11-01 19:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Josh L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 or 15 is way to young to be having sex. Sex is great but it also should come with a commitment. In addition, do you know if he is having sex with other girls or guys? You could be sleeping with your whole class. STD is not a fun acronym.
2007-11-01 19:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyChucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ypu have got to be kidding me. You are 13 for crying out loud. Grow up and when you do then worry about having sex. Where do you people come from anyway?
2007-11-01 20:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your parents are very smart. Young girls are having sex too young these days. Just wait. He may be sweet, but it's just not time yet.
2007-11-01 18:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by ~Sara~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys are way to young. I'm 18, and i lost my virginity when i was 13, and it was the worst mistake of my life. trust me, i would wait, i have a fiance now, but from having sex so young, i still think about him even though i don't want to. please really think this over.
2007-11-01 19:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why rush, you have the rest of you life to do that? And your only 13 what if something happens? Are you ready for that? I dont think its worth it. Be safe and smart.
-Tilly :]
2007-11-01 18:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tilly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how sweet he is, don't do it!!! Your parents aren't, being mean, their being smart, maybe the don't want you getting sifck with some type of crap! Or maybe they don't want their baby to be a mommie(so they can raise it) stop&think!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-02 02:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋