My brother had a gf and then made her his fiance. Well after thay were gonna get married she flipped and yelled at his kid for moving 4 little costers that were in a corner(all she did was lay them out in a pattern) well anyway he broke up with her because she called his kids crack heads. well then she called him and said the only reason our parens r still together is beacause we have alot of money(she only knows we have lots of it cause i go to a private school) then she called him a cuss word and just said HORRIBLE things. NOW THERE BACK TOGETHER!!! he's making a HUGE mistake!!! help everyone in the family thought the troubles were over till TODAY!!! its just horrible she treatened us too!! help advice plzz
2007-11-01 11:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That would be the day that I took someone back after she disrespected my kids and my family. I would beat the girls ***! I would be mad at my brother. And what about his daughter, does he want to keep subjecting her to that. That is not right at all!
2007-11-01 11:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by B&M_2005 M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young and it is wonderful that you are worried about your brother and your family's happiness.
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about the situation. Your brother must make his own decisions and his own mistakes. When you love someone then you sometimes can't see their faults at first. Eventually he will either be happy with her or he will find out how she is and he will leave her. All his family can do is be there for him to comfort him if he loses her.
But your parents should put their foot down and insist on respectful treatment in their house.
Good Luck
2007-11-01 18:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is hard because your brother must love her and love is blindyoung man I think what you need to do is talk to your brother ask him what he thinks tell him what she did. I mean there is nothing you can do but support your brother and be ready for the worst in the end or be happy for them if they are happy.
2007-11-01 18:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must say that i'd be worried too if I were you.
Maybe if you keep away from her and tell your brother that you won't come to his marriage unless he takes some time to rething the relationship.
She does sound scary and I'd feel worried about the children too!
2007-11-01 18:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it stinks for you and your family there really isn't anything you can do to convince your brother that he is making a mistake. We have had problems like this in our family for years, people will keep making the same mistakes, but I would suggest telling him that if she threatens his kids what makes him think that she wont eventually hit them or verbally abuse them later on in life.
2007-11-01 18:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by PUREfect Your Skin 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he will have to learn by his own mistakes there is nothing u can do about his feelings for her. but it won't be long until she shows her true self again and they split up so i would not worry or interfere. just let nature take it course.
2007-11-01 19:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with firefly. he needs to stay away from her. she is trouble. better to find out now before he says I do. there is something wrong with her. she had no right to call his kids names or to cuss. if he marries her, she will be there stepmother and she will treat them badly
2007-11-01 18:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your brother needs to stay away from this woman. she does not respect his kids or family. let your brother know she is not welcomed until she can be polite and act like a lady.
2007-11-01 18:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's horrible. Perhaps, a family meeting may be in order.
Joy to you!!!
2007-11-01 18:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't nutting you can do about it. Your brother is the only person who can make the decision.
2007-11-01 18:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋