2007-11-01 10:49:24 · 85 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Absolutely no....
2007-11-01 20:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is way too short for that. And what does it gain you? Not a thing. You feel bad, but the one you're holding the grudge against couldn't care less. In the end, *you're* the only one that your grudge affects negatively.
2007-11-01 11:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you wouldn't believe. I've elevated holding a grudge to an art form.
2007-11-01 11:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by BDWW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let things go if they are minor offenses, but TWICE in my life people have done things to me that could have actually gotten me killed - both times they knew exactly what they were doing, and simply did not even care - their motives were purely selfish. So, YES, I hold grudges against these two, and WILL make SURE they know exactly how I feel IF they are stupid enough to ever cross my path again.
2007-11-01 10:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some grudges need to be held because if you let go you'll keep getting stabbed in the back over and over again not learning a thing.
2007-11-01 10:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by JustAnotherMarionette. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try not to hold grudges. I can't say never, it may depend on the situation. It would have to be pretty bad. I usually get over things pretty quick.
2007-11-01 10:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's almost impossible for me to hold grudges. I can't remember anything the next day. Well i can but i just don't care. The next day.
2007-11-01 11:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Stark Raving Mad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends. If they are ******* then yeah I hold grudges because they are gonna be like that all the time and someway somehow sumtin has to happen so they change. If it was an accident or sumtin out of the ordinary then yeah ill forgive.
2007-11-01 10:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I try to but i become to emotionally attached to someone when i meet them so i always want them back, even if they hurt me. Gahh i wish i could actually hold a grudge sometimes because most people never change! ^.^
2007-11-01 11:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is something to hold a grudge about, then yeah maybe.
2007-11-01 10:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to, but holding a grudge only effects yourself, not the other party, and its not worth it!
2007-11-01 10:52:18 · answer #11 · answered by Slim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋